Catch Up!

Despite having another busy week, I have managed to catch up with a few friends and family. Work has obviously taken priority over many other aspects of my life at the moment, as I save hard for my trip to China in May. Staying in contact with those closest should be more of a priority, but we all lead busy lives and inevitably socialising does take a back seat!

On Monday I was able to briefly catch up with a friend Giles, who had travelled from his home in Liverpool to work at the Kings Theatre for the pantomime season. It was good to see a friendly face, someone I have been in contact with for probably five years now. Sadly through lack of time, I was also working at the Newcome Arms, serving customers, whilst chatting to Giles, but that didn't detract from the conversation. I was happy to talk to someone who actually understands me, more than most!

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On Wednesday I went out with my Cousins Chris and Maria; along with my Aunt Trisha, we had a meal at the Cobra Indian Restaurant in North End Portsmouth. It was fantastic chatting with family; I haven't seen these two in quite a while now. Talking about Mum and Dad, Aunts and Uncles and the difficulties we are all facing as a family is important, to help deal with the problems of old age and illness. Chris and Maria have always been a great source of support, they have had to deal with their own issues, when Christopher's Mother, my Great Aunt went into care, so I always value their advice, which is always honestly given!

Yesterday I met my Cousin Joe and his new partner Julianna at the Newcome before I started my shift. Once again it was good to touch base with another member of my family and to meet the lovely Julianna, who seems like a great girl. As Joe said to me, 'we all need someone in our life' and of course he is right. He made me think about my partner Darrell in Australia and just how difficult it is living apart at this time.

It is strange, I have so many people around me at the moment, that I barely have anytime to myself, but I don't have the one person who really matters here with me. Both of us are managing to cope as best we can but it isn't the same as being together. Seeing Joe happy with his new partner was a reminder of what I am missing. I look forward to the day when Darrell and I can finally share our life with all those who are now a big part of mine!

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