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From a new life in spain, to an old life in britain, 'roaming brit' documents uncertain times!

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On 31st January 2016, my partner and I left Southampton to start a new life as Expats in Gran Alacant, on the Costa Blanca. This blog will document our journey, as we navigate the Spanish system, travelling a path untried and untested. With Brexit looming, political turmoil in Europe, and an unpredictable future, harsh decisions must be made. Illness, family bonds, and a Change of heart all make for challenging times in the life of a 'Roaming Brit!'

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Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

21/12/2024

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Since moving to Australia in 2022, my outlook on Christmas has changed —  dramatically! All my life I have loved celebrating the festive season; surrounded by family, or in most cases friends, I enjoyed every aspect of Christmas, more than anyone I know — the sparkling lights, big tinsel-clad tree, Christmas dinner, and of course presents — lots, and lots of presents! However, times have changed and so have I.

Christmas down under is a million miles away from Christmas in the UK. The biggest difference is of course the temperature. Currently, we are sweltering in over 40-degree heat, and it is set to get hotter by December 25th. The last thing you want to do is stand in a hot kitchen, cooking a 'posh Sunday roast,' even in an air-conditioned villa.

Last year I cooked for everyone, a proper Christmas Dinner with all the trimmings, and I won't be doing it again. Despite loving a good old roast, it's just too hot to bother — cold meat and salad are far more preferable. Top tip in Australia:  just keep it simple, that way you save time and money. You can still enjoy Christmas without a full on banquet!

I have certainly become more canny with money, living in Perth, it's a case of having to be. Darrell and I are relatively well off, but the cost of living is extremely high here. Despite not having to worry about where the next dollar is coming from, I have still learnt to be frugal, especially where Christmas is concerned. 

I am a member of several loyalty schemes and collect flybuy points from Coles Supermarket, where I do my weekly shop, and other retailers who take the same loyalty card. The points I save, pay for Christmas in its entirety — presents and food, leaving me with more money for holidays and going out. Today I am more aware of money, and no longer frivolous, as I was in the past. In all honesty, my years living in Portsmouth taught me how to save and work hard; since 2015 I have changed a lot. Enjoying life is now my biggest priority; life is about me and Darrell and not wasting our time or money on hangers-on! 

Don't go mad at Christmas if you can't afford it, save your money, or like me — loyalty points, throughout the year and only spend what you can afford. Of course, I am more lucky than most, I no longer have a family to buy for and without kids of my own, I don't have to shell out too much cash at this time of year. Even so, I will always keep my purse closed, until I absolutely have to open it. God, I really do sound like Scrooge don't I, but when you are as old as me, you have learnt a lot over the years, most of it the hard way.

However you spend Christmas this year, have a good one! Send cards to family and friends; none of this nonsense about not sending them, and giving the money to charity instead, because you and I both know, you won't be giving that money to good causes. It's just a lazy excuse not to send any. Receiving cards is such a wonderful thing, it means someone is thinking about you wherever you are, and that is the most important feeling in the World, better than any expensive present you receive!. 

​Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!


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Christmas Thoughts 2024 - Joanne Donaldson!

19/12/2024

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I don’t send cards, I donate the money to charity instead. I also use one big box that all the family put presents in for each other, to save time and money on wrapping paper, that will only end up in the bin!

​Joanne

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Christmas Thoughts 2024 — Geraldine Roberts!

10/12/2024

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My memories of Christmas are having all the family round on Boxing Day, and me making sure everyone had enough food and drink. I love making plenty of food for everyone and doing little special portions, so they all feel it’s just for them!

​Geraldine

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Christmas Thoughts 2024 — Sandra Crook!

4/12/2024

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I do the grocery shop, the day before Christmas Eve, and prepare the veg the night before. Sometimes I cook the meat the night before as well, but wrapping presents, I'm sh*t at, so my daughter helps to do that. If I see a bargain, I'll get it! I've already got tubs of chocolates, 2 for £5 with the Asda app! It's my daughter's Birthday on Christmas day as well, so we get a Birthday cake instead of a Christmas cake!

Sandra

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Christmas Thoughts 2024 — Sean Reed

1/12/2024

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Usually, I would do my shopping in advance for all the family presents, for both mine and my partner’s side. As for buying food, we try to avoid shopping at least 3 days before Christmas (you and I both experienced the chaos in supermarkets at that time of year). Typically, everything, in every detail, is planned well in advance, to ensure a smooth and relaxing Christmas for all!

Sean
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Christmas Thoughts 2024 — Donna Pike!

23/11/2024

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We cook the other meats like beef and gammon the day before; that way they are easier to slice, but the turkey is cooked on the day.

We steam all the veg apart from the swede. Potatoes are boiled first, then placed into hot goose fat in the oven; that way they are soft inside and crispy outside.

I buy presents throughout the year and make all my cards and other presents too. I love wrapping presents and always do ribbon, tags, and bows to match. I even did all my friends for her one year, when she'd had an operation, and couldn't do it!!! Payment was a curry, and a few drinks the same night as wrapping, and yes they were all done BEFORE we started drinking!

Donna
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Christmas Thoughts 2024 — Joanne Hurst!

20/11/2024

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My Christmas preparation revolves around having everything bar the cooking done before November.

I don't have a Christmas tree (psycho kitten).

My favourite memories of Christmas come from my childhood. When he was home on leave, my dad would wake us up Christmas morning with a cuppa and a plate of 4 choccy biccies. He would then do a full English. Dad did everything on Christmas day, as did my mum when Dad was at sea. He always made the day so happy and full of fun. I miss the Christmases of my youth, so full of joy, happiness, and love! 

Joanne
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Christmas Thoughts 2024 — Wayne Smith!

13/11/2024

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'I buy a fresh turkey on Christmas Eve as they are usually half-price and cook it low overnight! I boil the gammon in Coca-Cola the day before, and the beef goes in with turkey! All vegetables are also prepped the day before and put on to cook on Christmas morning. Everyone gets a card with cash, as buying presents nowadays is crap, compared to when we were younger! Loved gift vouchers for Fosters and Burtons,'

Wayne
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Year In Review 2023!

31/12/2023

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I'm not too sure how long this blog will be today, since for the last week, I've been suffering from a bad wrist. I've been to the Doctors, as you would expect from me, and have an X-ray and ultrasound booked for 8 January. This kind of thing always happens at the most inconvenient time, so I just have to wait until Christmas is over. For now, I will just persevere and do as much as I can.

Looking back over this past year has for once been a pleasure. Darrell and I have achieved so much here in Australia, in such a short space of time. I started my new job, as Manager of a busy outlet shop, in the middle of January and have been working there ever since. Getting this job, after only being in Australia for a few months, was an amazing achievement. I had no idea I would be working so soon after receiving my Permanent Resident status, just a few weeks before. However, so far I seem to have fitted in well at this high-end shop, just a fifteen-minute walk from where we currently live.

Of course, I have worked in retail most of my life and my customer service skills are exceptional, but I still have to pinch myself sometimes, when I realise just how far I have come, since leaving the UK. Compared to previous jobs, this position is extremely well paid and has allowed me to afford a lifestyle, I could have only dreamt of in the UK. I am no longer just surviving day by day, I now have the money to do the things I want, and I am well aware of how lucky I am to be in such a fortunate position. I never thought I would be working for such a respected Australian brand, in an industry I initially knew very little about. Furthermore, I am, however, proud to say I have adapted to my somewhat challenging circumstances and become a respected member of the Management team!

Early in the year, we also exchanged contracts on our new home in Australia. With a lot of luck and encouragement from a wonderful financial advisor, we bought a three-bedroom villa, our first home together since living in Spain. The house is everything we could have dreamt of, offering us a home in a country I am now proud to call home. Thankfully, I was able to save a substantial deposit, whilst living in the UK, during COVID. For the first time in a long time, I was able to do the right thing financially and invest in mine and Darrell's future.

The villa needs a lot of work doing to it, and it isn't something we will finish overnight. Gradually, we are doing what we can, when finances allow. Unlike the past, I am paying for everything cash and not on credit, which means the renovations will take a little longer to complete. That's fine by me, I am in no rush to get everything done, and I'm not going anywhere soon.


We have managed to upgrade the electrics, replace the garden fence and fully furnish the property, without borrowing money. It's only because we earn a decent wage that we have been able to do this, if I was back in the UK, it just wouldn't have happened.

2023 has been about turning over a new leaf and part of that desire, includes financial independence and stability. With frugal living and careful money management, I have managed to pay double the mortgage payments over the last year, reducing my mortgage term from 30 to 12 years, and I'm not stopping there. I am determined to pay off this house in record time and most importantly, buy another investment property, to supplement mine and Darrell's pension as we approach retirement. This isn't something we can do straight away, especially with interest rates so high, but it is top of my list of priorities as we approach 2024.
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With my Permanent Residency secured, I was finally given permission to leave Australia; after such a difficult few months, I decided to arrange a holiday for me and Darrell, back to Thailand. This was a place both of us fell in love with, when we travelled there in 2022 and like my other half, I wanted to see more of this amazing Country. In August, we flew to Bangkok, where we began a ten-day unforgettable holiday.

This was a two centre holiday, and we started our time in Bangkok, staying once again at the Nuovo City Hotel, opposite our favourite Bangkok restaurant 'So Samsen' on Samen Road. This beautiful restaurant is owned Aom, who made us feel so at home, the first time we arrived in Thailand, a year before. Aom offered a safe haven, where we could sit and relax, finally free from the bitterness we left behind. In many respects, 'So Samsen' provided us with a homely, friendly environment, which we had craved for so long. We agreed we would return,  and here we were in 2023, back in a place, so special, so full of happy memories, 'So Samen' on Samsen Road!


From Bangkok, we flew to the northern Thai province of Chiang Mai, where we spent six amazing days exploring this truly awe-inspiring place. We spent time at an Elephant sanctuary, visited the jungle, climbed a waterfall and visited the famous Long Neck Karen People, who I had only ever read about in books. It was an incredible adventure of a lifetime and a trip I will never forget. This was what living life was all about, and we had finally found happiness far away from the UK.
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A house is of course never a home without a cat, and finally we were able to adopt two cats and make them a part of our life. First came Pippa, a beautiful tabby, who has Hyperreflexier, and the sweetest little girl, who has many issues to deal with. She was a rescue cat, who still remains nervous, but over time, we hope she will settle down and finally relax around us. Then there is Akira, a rescue kitten, who quite honestly is a little terror, but a loving one at that. Both of them have a way to go, before they are settled together, but as time moves on, they are becoming closer and closer and most importantly integrating into our life in Western Australia.
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As 2023 draws to a close, it is important for Darrell and I to spend our first Christmas together, down under, in our new home, surrounded by family and friends. For the first and last time, I cooked a proper British Christmas Dinner, in sweltering 35 degree heat. Luckily, we have aircon in every room and the raging temperature wasn't too much of an issue.

It does feel good to have a home again and invite guests over, as we used to, back in the good old days. You can go weeks without seeing people here, so it does make a pleasant change to entertain like we did in the past. Both Darrell and I are homebodies and our house is very important to us, so we are particularly choosy about whom we have over. We have been bitten too many times by bad people, and this isn't something we want again.


As we move into 2024, we hope to continue very much in the same vein as before. My job is now secure and after a large pay rise, I hope to invest more money into our villa. We also plan to travel extensively next year, returning to the UK when we can and visiting Vietnam and Japan. This has indeed been one of our most successful years ever, but we are aware of just what could go wrong. It is essential both of us look towards the future, but never forget the past that is responsible, for where we are today. Learning from our mistakes, is the only thing that will give us the future we both deserve and a successful if challenging life, even if it is twenty years too late!
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Christmas Memories — Amelia Lockhart!

28/12/2023

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When I was a child, we had a neighbour who was Austrian, named Herta. She'd met her husband during WWII — he was in the military, RAF, I believe. She married him and moved back to England with him. They slept on his parents' sofa whilst they got their feet under them, and then they raised a family while running a corner shop.

I don't remember her husband; I was very small when he died. I could never forget Herta though. She was probably the kindest person I've ever known. The kind of lady who got up at 3 AM to unlock the door to her porch because some birds had nested in there, and she didn't want them to miss the early worms. She also carried her very large boxer dog upstairs, in her laundry basket at night, because he had arthritis and couldn't manage himself. Never mind that, she also had arthritis — she was worried he'd be lonely. She'd do anything for anyone.


About twenty years ago, she gave me this ornament, and I came across it again when putting my tree up. She was so worried about misspelling the writing on it, but it's never been anything but special to me!


Amelia

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