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From a new life in spain, to an old life in britain, 'roaming brit' documents uncertain times!

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On 31st January 2016, my partner and I left Southampton to start a new life as Expats in Gran Alacant, on the Costa Blanca. This blog will document our journey, as we navigate the Spanish system, travelling a path untried and untested. With Brexit looming, political turmoil in Europe and an unpredictable future, harsh decisions have to be made. Illness, family bonds and a Change of heart all make for challenging times in a life of a 'Roaming Brit!'

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CORONAVIRUS - Face Covering!

30/4/2020

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I received a packet of bandanas this morning, that I had ordered to make some facemasks to be worn in public spaces, during this awful Pandemic. It does seem that the British Government will soon ask us all to wear face coverings in public, as they try to stop the spread of this deadly Coronavirus. I have personally always been in two minds about wearing such a mask, because I have not been entirely convinced by their usefulness, but clearly we have reached a point where we will have no option, as the death figure in the UK passes twenty-six thousand. If we are to get back to any sense of normality, we have to do all we can to restart our lives, before the economy collapses.

Personally I don't agree with the public wearing medical grade masks, which should be prioritised for use within the NHS, but I do think if all of us wore some form of covering, we could begin to reduce the spread of COVID-19 drastically. Scotland along with many other nations are already advising people wear protection, so I am sure we will follow soon enough. As a result I have been looking across the internet, trying to find the best way to make a mask and used what I think is the simplest method. Of course this isn't as effective as an NHS equivalent, but it can help stop the spread of this disease dramatically, especially if we all wear one.

I will don my mask in public spaces, although haven't thought about whether to wear it during a nine-hour shift at work and because of my limited contact with the public, being behind a perspex screen, I am not sure it will help me in any case. Whilst walking through the shop or in other enclosed spaces, I will of course put one on.

In the end all of us will have to do what we feel is right at this time. I see many people sporting protective face coverings while I am at work, they are mainly young and not necessarily the people you would expect to see using them. I also see many older and disabled people out and about, who I would have never expected to and should instead be shielded at home, but not everyone has the luxury of having friends, family and neighbours to help them. As we pass the peak of this pandemic, we should all take the opportunity to sit and think about others and encourage everyone to look after themselves and their loved ones. Everyone should take precautions, follow social distancing rules, keep two meters apart and continue to practice good hygiene, so we can eventually get back to a sense or normality and enjoy the lives we once had!

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Photographs of Hope - Cathy McGuinness!

30/4/2020

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Inspirational photographs at a time of crisis, creating positivity for the future!

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Such an inspiration to everyone, love him!

Cathy McGuinness


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Photographs of Hope - Amanda Clayton!

29/4/2020

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Inspirational photographs at a time of crisis, creating positivity for the future!

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There are so many obvious things that can bring positivity: family, friends, pets, memories, achievements... the list is endless! However, we all need to have a momentary break in the seriousness of our lives and our current situation, however hopeless or desperate it may feel. This can only be truly achieved (in my opinion) by humour! Silly things that make us laugh and make us forget for at least a moment. Chickens singing is just one thing that makes me chuckle! Xx

Amanda Clayton


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Photographs of Hope - Dame Amelia Lockhart!

27/4/2020

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I've been thinking about what I wanted to say for your article. I kind of wanted to write a poem but inspiration just wasn't striking... until, sitting at home I heard people outside start clapping. Here it is. I hope it'll be useful to you 🙂

A new Thursday routine
Of thanks
Clap
Clap
Clap
I clap for my sister
Working long hours
Caring for the sick
I hope someone cares for her
Clap
Clap
Clap
I clap for my nephew
Singing like nightingale
Hospitals built in days
Clap
Clap
Clap
I clap for my friends
Working through difficult times
Keeping the nation fed
Clap
Clap
Clap
Neighbours throw open doors
Let off fireworks
We applaud you they say
Clap
Clap
Clap
You and you and you
And you, whoever you are
Wherever you are
We give you thanks.


Dame Amelia Lockhart


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Photographs of Hope - Christopher Bunday!

26/4/2020

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This is a photo of my aunty Linda. She's had an awful life with heartbreak, abuse, depression and a partner who died about 5 years back unexpectedly. Yet through thick and thin is the happiest, kindest person I know. This picture and Aunty Linda always makes me happy and thinking of her always reminds me that no matter what happens I'll make it through, thick and thin and be happy like she is.

Christopher Bunday


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CORONAVIRUS - Adjusting To The New Normal!

26/4/2020

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I'm just coming to the end of my few days off this week, and after a difficult time last week, I am finally feeling recuperated and ready for the next few days. On Thursday and Friday, as I made my way home from work, I was spat at by a rather dishevelled gentleman, who I have never seen in the local area before. Considering everything that is going on I felt sick to my stomach, at the thought of someone elses saliva on me. Luckily enough, I was able to move my elbow up towards my face, protecting me from the worst of it.

In most cases everyone is pulling together, but there is still an element that wishes to cause stress and anxiety for everyone else, and they succeeded in my case. When I got home from work on Friday I was pretty angry and took my anger out on other people. To be honest I really don't want to be around anyone at the moment, which is good considering we are all in lockdown. It is clear that certain individuals really shouldn't be mixing with the local community in any case and I just wish someone, somewhere would do something to stop the kind of anti-social behaviour, which is a blight on this city!
The Government has been encouraging all of us to get out and enjoy some exercise each day, despite the lockdown we are currently in. This has been an incentive for me to get up and do something I wouldn't usually do. I have never really been a great exerciser, but over the last week I have been out and about for at least an hour a day, getting to know Portsmouth and enjoying some much-needed physical exertion.

On Saturday I walked to Portsmouth historic dockyard, a place I have been many times before, but somewhere I never tire of visiting. The dockyard encompasses everything that makes Portsmouth special, it is after all a Naval city first and foremost and its connection to the sea is everywhere you walk.

Like the majority of the city, the landscape was desolate and empty with barely a soul in sight. I read an article on Saturday praising just how well Portsmouth has done in adhering to the lockdown measures introduced by the Government and it is easy to see why. The roads and parks are empty and people are following the rules unlike many other large towns and cities across the country.

There was understandably an eerie feeling across Portsmouth as I walked around, a sensation I am just not used to. I remember thinking to myself, that I would wake up from this nightmare and suddenly life would be back to normal, but sadly that just wasn't to be. This really is the 'new normal' now and all of us have to get used to living this way, at least for the foreseeable future. The streets may well have been empty, no longer full of voices, but there was a strange calmness, even in the face of a deadly virus!
On Sunday I walked a slightly different route, this time heading to Southsea Common and Clarence Pier. The funfair was a special place for me as a child, where I would go with Mum and Dad or my Grandparents. It looked sad and tired, closed and shut down with hardly anyone about, but it was a reminder that this venue, like so many others, will rise again one day, as all of us get back to the way things were.

Walking down towards the coast, early on a Sunday morning I was amazed by the reaction of those I passed in the street. There were just a few joggers and runners and others taking their daily walk, but everyone was happy to say hello, raise their hand and say good morning. That hasn't happened before, usually others pass you by without a second thought. The community feeling in the country right now is truly humbling, as all of us try to cope with circumstances we have never seen before.

As well as my daily constitutional, I am continuing to cook healthy balanced meals each day. After reading up on Coronavirus, it is clear that a healthy immune system is your best protection against it. I no longer drink or smoke, but do take multi-vitamins and probiotics every day and try to do my best to stay fit and well. Of course, I am overweight, which is a red flag, but I am continuing to lose a few pounds a week as I work towards my personal goals.

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On Thursday we did our third non touch toast as a family, celebrating each other at this time. With everything that is going on, it is important to remember those close, even if we can't see each other at the moment.

I have to admit I am finding the social distancing difficult, having not seen my Dad or anyone from my extended family for nearly six weeks now. The loneliness has become so extreme, I have become very insular, in a way I haven't since I was a teenager and that really does worry me. Not only am I beginning to resent people, but I am purposely avoiding conversations.

Depression has also become a growing concern, as I navigate this new, untested way of living. Despite getting out as much as I can, soaking up the early summer sun, I want to get home as quickly as possible, only spending an hour outdoors. The long term effects of this lockdown will be vast and wide for all of us and I hope we all learn to live with our families, friends and neighbours once again when this is all over.

Today the weather was a little drab and overcast, so I went for a brisk hour walk around the local neighbourhood, something I haven't really done while I have been here. It was truly heart-warming to see nearly every house, celebrating the work of our National Health Service, in fighting Coronavirus. The colourful pictures of rainbows was amazing and an important sign of the times. It did at least allow me to recall happier times, spent with friends and family, before Coronavirus, before the planet turned sour.

Finally, I went for a stroll around the cemetery, which was oddly tranquil in these stressful times. Just to reinforce the COVID era, a funeral was taking place, with just four mourners and everyone wore masks. Nothing is normal any more, the difference is stark, observing the 'new normal' that now envelops all our lives!
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Photographs of Hope - Matthew Paul Case!

26/4/2020

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Inspirational photographs at a time of crisis, creating positivity for the future!

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This is a photo from Arthur’s Seat in Edinburgh, makes me feel calm and hopeful there’ll be plenty of sunrises to see again x


Matthew Paul Case


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Photographs of Hope - Steve Allen!

25/4/2020

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I am so in awe of the flowers that are flourishing and giving Mother Natures touch to the turmoil we are going through.

The Planet is showing us hope....

Thankfully we have had blue sky and sunshine over the last 3 weeks, I am sure this has helped us all a little.
The rain will be with us for a day or so, to nurture our Habitat.

We really do have a wonderful Planet 🌏
I hope we move forward with simplicity love and kindness...

Lessons need to be learned



Steve Allen


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Photographs of Hope - Helen James!

25/4/2020

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This made me feel positive. Paul Skegg is a friend of friends (radiography is a small world).  He has made an amazing recovery and made it home against the odds!

Helen James


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Photographs of Hope - Lesley Ings!

23/4/2020

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The Love and Kindness of a 2nd Family.


In 2012, I joined Slimming World on the advice of the Stroke nurse at my surgery. It was necessary for me to lose weight after suffering a TIA. At the first meeting I was greeted with so much welcome it soon put me at my ease, a 74-year old among many much younger men and women! Slowly I lost weight and the following year I was voted the group’s Miss Slinky, much to my husband and my amusement!

Over the next few years I lost over six stone. I made many friends, age didn’t seem to matter. I joined in social and charity events, went walking regularly with a couple of buddies and was then able to share my knowledge and support to other members of my group.

The true spirit of the love I received from my group Consultant and my friends really came to the fore in 2018. Whilst in America visiting family, my eldest daughter suffered a devastating stroke caused by a blood clot from injured ankles after a fall. After 2 operations and 2 weeks in ICU her husband and family had the agonizing decision to turn off the life support. During this time, despite the time difference,my Group Consultant was ready with words of comfort and support on Messenger, as with friends sending messages too. Two months later my husband died from vascular dementia.

Throughout all this, beside my relations being there for me, my Slimming World family were there too. I could not have got through without them. And now with the Coronavirus causing so much havoc, there they are again! Getting my medication and weekly food supplies, so that my younger daughter doesn’t have to travel a long way to help me.

Face book and the internet are a lifeline. Facetime and Zoom enabling us to see each other and chat.

Although the last couple of years have been difficult for me, I’ve been lucky to have so much help and love shown to me. The events of today are bringing out the best in the majority of people and the wonderful caring spirit is returning to the British people. I do hope it continues in the most positive way for many years to come.


Lesley Ings


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