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July 5, 2016

Christopher Bunday!

The one person who was there throughout my illness, Christopher Bunday, who lived with us. He was a tower of strength, through difficult times. He saw through those who caused me so much damage and trauma. A true friend. 1 Year ago today!
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July 5, 2016

Thinking!

Had another great walk home from work this afternoon. My journey home, in the UK, was nothing like this. Today is very hot. I have gotten used to the heat, and absolutely adore it now.

I am lucky to be away from The UK. Often, when walking, I have time to think, about the circumstances that brought me here and it does make me realise, just how close to total collapse I became.

Rebuilding lives, after such distressing and harmful times, obviously has its challenges, but time to think, rationalise what happened and come to terms with the pain, is gradually helping me accept, just what others did to me.

Time is indeed a great healer!

Who wouldn't love to have this walk to work every day. It's times like this, that make you feel good to be alive!

Gran Alacant has allowed me to grow as a person, recovering from an agonising and harrowing last year in The UK. The fact that I have been so positive and forward thinking, is in part, at least, down to where we live.

I still have to put up with abuse from those responsible for our position, but expressing my feelings in words and passing on the evidence to those who can challenge these people, is all I can do. I'm not hiding, I am finally living!
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July 5, 2016

Passion!

Everyone has a passion in life. We spend so much time, working in jobs we hate, entertaining people we can't stand, conforming to what others believe we should be and ignoring the very thing that makes us feel alive. Feeling passionate about anything, should encourage us to fulfill its meaning, Don't waste another minute doing what is expected. Wake up and charge headlong into the passion, that once permeated your dreams!
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July 5, 2016

Fake!

She was nothing but a fraud and a fake. This seemingly sincere message of support, was nothing but. Words from a false profit, who`s only aim, was the preservation of a reputation, that had been lost years ago. I spoke out and was left high and dry, without a care, from people, who claimed to be charitable, good and just. My trust given fully, to a person who deserves nothing but contempt!
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July 5, 2016

1970s

Just sat at home, watching 'On The Buses!' It really does take me back to my childhood. The 1970s, for me at least, does feel like an altogether more innocent time. If you could take me back, I would go, without hesitation. Happy memories of long hot summers and lazy days. A tragic decade for some, an exhilarating decade of self discovery for me!
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July 4, 2016

Summer Season!

Australia

Darrell has booked his flights to Australia and will be leaving in a few weeks, to stay with his Mother for a while, while she undergoes treatment for cancer. I will be staying in Spain and working through the summer season. I would have loved to have gone to see my Mother-In-Law, but do need to stay behind and work, look after the cats and Jamie of course. My home is now here, I have made many new, wonderful friends and know I will not be feeling lonely!

Work

I think the summer season has just well and truly kicked off, at least for us in Gran Alacant. Last night was the busiest night we have had, so far, this year at work. One day you come into work and it's quiet, the next day it is packed to the rafters, as it was last night. I was on my own cooking as well, which made it harder, although the adrenaline rush you get, working in a busy kitchen is great and I enjoyed every minute of it. The last time I worked in such a demanding, bustling environment, was in 2002, when we had our own business. That first Bank Holiday we opened was heaving. Yesterday took me right back to that time!

I have applied for a few writing jobs recently, both employed, voluntary and on a freelance basis. Although I love my current job, I also wanted to do something I love as well. Since writing and literature is my first love, it was natural, that I should try and do something in that line. There are a few openings for writers at the moment, in publications and online websites. As an expat, I have a view of life that not only differs from others who live and work here, but also has a unique take on the up's and down's of making a new start, in a different country, with completely unaccustomed challenges and an outlook on sustainability so at odds to what I am used to!

Also I have applied to do some acting, yes acting. Acting is something I always wanted to do, ever since I was a child. I have had my moments on the stage, certainly not in a professional capacity, but I do love standing up in front of an audience. There is a comprehensive Amateur Dramatics community in our region and I would like to play a small role in it, in whatever capacity they think fit. To be honest, I am so busy having moved to Spain, there really doesn't seem to be enough hours in the day anymore. For me, someone who likes to keep occupied, I am thrilled at this life change. Moving to Spain has been the catalyst for many things. All life changing and positive. This is just another part of a process, that will allow me to complete my journey of final fulfillment!

Had a few drinks at a rather packed Zest, my local after work. It has become somewhat of a Sunday tradition, popping to my favourite bar for a few pints on pay day. A warm welcome as ever from everyone there. I was thinking the other day, about just how happy everyone who lives here seems. Of course much of that contentment has a lot to do with the holiday nature of the place, the weather and the slower pace of life. Gradually I am getting used to the optimistic and progressive atmosphere, a welcome change from before!

Just a quick blog today. I am on a split shift and back at work at 7.30pm, but just enough time for my 'Thought for Today!'

Wealth!

I used to think wealth was about money, possessions and assets. I realise now, wealth encompasses a great deal more. The people in your life, the happiness you feel, the problems you endure and the knowledge you acquire, all make for a wealthier, happier and longer lasting experience! Living life well, makes you rich beyond your dreams!