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Let me introduce you to Rab; Rab is local to Gran Alacant, a great fella and one of the funniest guys you'll ever meet. Rab's facebook status updates are always a great start to the day; thought provoking, funny and inspiring. I am also lucky enough to call Rab a friend and patron at LoungeD, who enjoys a bottle or two of Coors Light. I recently asked him, if he wouldn't mind, me publishing his thought of the day on my blog, for readers of Spanish Views to enjoy; thanks Rab for agreeing; welcome to 'Rabs World!'
" If you hear your past calling, change your
phone number."
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As months go, I really am not enjoying November, probably my worst month of the year, in Spain at least. In the UK, I used to love November and the run up to Christmas, it's very different here. I have really started to feel cold, not during the day, it is still a very pleasant 23 degrees or more; no the time I feel the chill in the air is at night, when temperatures can drop as low as seven degrees, not cold by British standards, but certainly by Spanish; a huge drop from the heat of the day to the fresher conditions at night.
This month feels even worse than usual; as my body continues to suitably adjust to the Spanish weather, year on year, I am feeling the cold winter far more. Living at the top of a ravine in a north facing house, also doesn't help. These Masa built properties are just not constructed for all year round occupation. With no carpets or central heating, November is colder inside, than out. When I go to bed at night, the duvet on the bed feels cold to touch, almost damp, which of course isn't great heath wise; the only way to keep warm, is to wrap up, even in bed; electric blankets and hot water bottles a must.
Of course this November is the month we decamp to our new house. I don't really relish packing boxes, it is a big source of angst for me. Moving is stressful, especially when Darrell and I are both working and have little time to organise this move. Darrell works nights, which is difficult for both of us. He finds it hard to sleep during the day, I have to be as quiet as a mouse, so packing boxes is impossible and I find it hard to sleep, without Darrell; luckily there are only a few days to go, before we leave Casa Caprice, so I shouldn't complain too much.
I wanted to say a big thank you to everyone who has offered to help us move; just last night two customers offered to lend us their people carrier. Gran Alacant comes into its own when someone needs help or advice; this kind of community spirit just doesn't exist anywhere else, especially in the UK. On Saturday, we have some friends coming over and should have everything done relatively quickly, which has to be a good thing, the sooner we are out of this house the better. It was never meant to be a long term option, living here, we picked it blind from the internet, without knowing the area. Living on top of Heart Attack Hill, was always a challenging option, despite the beautiful, stunning views from our house.
My bloody android box, containing all the British television channels broke this month too. I have no idea what is going on back home, what's in the news or the state of play in Coronation Street. I am currently having to watch Spanish television or DVD's; at least on Saturday I will have access to cable TV again, it can't come soon enough, just like the end of November; the end is finally in sight, hallelujah!
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Christmas 2017 is nearly upon us, my second year living abroad. The festive season is very different in Spain, less commercial, more about spending time with loved ones; how it should be. Celebrating without those who were close is hard, however this is the start of Christmases yet to come; I embrace it with all my heart!
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I've found my lucky tin of carrots while cleaning the kitchen ready for the move on Saturday, actually Mollie and Wildling found them, rolling the tin across the floor, while I was trying to pack boxes. I've had this tin for quite a while now, for at least five different moves; it went out of date in 2013. I carry it from house to house, stick it in the back of a cupboard and hopefully it brings me good luck; truth be told, it hasn't produced much luck in my life; now it sits in my kitchen cupboard, as a reminder of home, a souvenir from another life!
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Next weekend will be the 24th time I've moved since leaving home in 1992. Despite what you might think, I hate the process of moving and just wish to stay in one place long enough, to finally settle down. Unlike most people I don't have the security of owning my own home, having jumped off the property ladder in the UK in 2006.
When I look back at that decision, to sell the houses I owned, I am well aware I made a mistake. It was stupid selling assets, a regret I will always have. Getting back on the property ladder now, at my age, living in Spain is a difficult, but not impossible task. I don't particularly want to rent for the rest of my life, equally I want to freedom to move when I choose. My mind is split right down the middle, as usual, wanting to follow different directions; never knowing which path to take!
Despite my drifter mentality, I have always had more baggage and possessions than I could ever need in a lifetime, in complete contrast to my lifestyle. Today I am still left with far too much stuff, the remainder of what I had in the UK; items I am not prepared to part with just yet.
The nature of my relationship with Darrell, has always meant that I have to carry around, a lot of documentation, on top of my goods and chattels. I have two filing cabinets full of paperwork, needed to prove our connection together. To demonstrate our association since 1995, we have to keep everything, from receipts, bank statements and utility bills, in order to remain together in the eyes of the law. Eventually when we settle in one country or another, we will have to produce these files once again, as we have to from time to time. It's difficult when you have a relationship with a citizen of another country, but I wouldn't have it any other way!
With one week to go before we move, we are nearly packed and ready, surrounded by boxes; not unusual for us in the grand scale of things, just another moving day, another new chapter and another new house to call home!