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Oh dear, here we go again, just when you think you are doing well and getting ahead, another stumbling block, hurdle to cross and a battle to fight. We are used to getting knocked back, but even we can't find an answer to this problem. All day I have been searching for solutions, to what is quite possibly the most difficult dilemma we have faced yet and all because of a driving licence.
A few weeks ago, Darrell surrendered his British driving licence to Trafico, believing he could exchange it for a Spanish one. The process is a legal necessity if you have lived in Spain for a qualifying period of time. Under normal circumstances this is a straight forward process and shouldn't cause any problems. In mine and Darrell's case, nothing could be further from the truth.
Darrell is of course an Australian citizen; he exchanged his West Australian Licence many years ago in the UK, for its British equivalent. Britain has a reciprocal agreement with Australia to allow the transaction to take place. In Spain no such agreement exists; so although he has an EU licence, he is not legally allowed to exchange it for a Spanish one; this is because it was exchanged in the past, from a country not recognised by Spain. In his case he will have to take a Spanish driving and theory test....IN SPANISH!
During this interim period, it seems he wont be able to work in his current job, which, yes you guessed it, involves driving. This leaves us in a precarious position. If either of us lose our jobs right now, we will be left financially destitute and unable to keep a roof over our heads. We have no idea what we can do, we literally don't have any viable options in these circumstances.
Getting a Spanish license with all the expense involved, while not working is not practical, so it looks like we are on plan B....We've been here before. Darrell is going to have to return to Australia once again, try and find work, care for his Mother and save money, so we can both relocate there long term; I will have to stay in Spain. Neither of us can afford the $7000 for a visa to allow us to stay together in Australia, as well as the moving costs involved. Once again we are left in a situation, where we are both split up, living away from one another. Yes we have done this before, but this time it will be for good, until I am able to join him.
We have considered returning to the UK, but once again the expense involved is prohibitive, especially with no home to go to, income and financial support; we are literally in a no win situation and have no where to turn. The next few days will be crucial; Once we know the final outcome we can then make plans accordingly.
Both of us have done everything possible to follow the draconian rules here in Spain and have paid a price for doing so. Despite loving this country, there comes a point when enough is enough and you have to hold your hands up and say 'I've had it!' That's where we both are today. We are not rich or even comfortable; we are barely getting by, money is our biggest challenge. We have no help and no options for surviving under these circumstances. Once again our future lies in the hands of others. It is only a matter of time, before we are well and truly back to square one!
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Mrs Brooks class was a hive of activity; each table had their own projects to complete. Paints, Crayola crayons and multicoloured pencils were laying haphazardly across the desks; all of us chatting with each other. I was in a mischievous mood, flicking paint at the girl sat next to me. By the end of the lesson, we were both covered in an assortment of acrylic, not even the plastic aprons would save us. Mrs Brooks walked over, she looked angry, the frown on her face revealing. Taking us both to one side, she gave us a good telling off and a smack on the back of the legs. I’d been spanked before, standing outside the headmistresses office for the rest of the day; I was an old pro, so hardly reacted; the young lass shed a few tears and we were both ordered to the toilets to clean up before lunch. By the time I had finished, I was in a worse state than before, soaking wet, dripping all over the floor. Cautiously I walked back into class, hoping to avoid catching Mrs Brooks eye. Sheepishly, I sat down at my desk, looking away from her gaze. My friend sat next to me facing the other way, so I did the same; friends no more!
It was dinner time, the bell sounded in the hall. Everyone started to tidy their desks. ‘Quietly, do it quietly!’ shouted Mrs Brooks, trying to make herself heard over the commotion in class. ‘I said quietly!’ she repeated once again. Suitably calm and composed, sitting in our seats, we always said a little prayer before dinner. ‘Close your eyes, hands together,’ shouted Mrs B:
‘Thank you for the world so sweet,
Thank you for the food we eat.
Thank you for the birds that sing,
Thank you God for everything.’
Everyone queued in two neat lines, boys one side, girls the other, holding hands as we made our way to the hall. We were on the last sitting today, the canteen was running a little later than usual; the queue unusually ending outside the door. Children jostled for pole position, pushing in front of their peers, wanting to get their food first. I was leant up against the wall, patiently waiting my turn. Mum had always taught me how to behave and never to bulldoze my way to the front; it wasn’t the right thing to do.
My new Clark’s sandals were rubbing the heals of my feet; lifting each one up in turn, I tried to ease the pain. Someone kicked me in the back of the legs. The procession of school children was so long, I didn’t see who it was. Turning, I faced the front, standing up straight, arms folded in protest. Scuffing my shoes, backwards and forwards (The mark of a petulant child, Mrs Brooks always said.) Trying to pass the time, I eventually reached the front of the calvalcade; picking up my mint green coloured plate. Today, soggy roast potatoes, lots and lots of cabbage, boiled to within an inch of its life and minced meat in gravy. Funny enough, I still cook this today; comfort food if you like. For desert, chocolate pudding with thick, lumpy pink blancmange; another dish I look back on with fondness.
The noise in the hall was deafening as I hesitantly walked to the table at the back of the hall, where my friends were already sat. I took the chair at the end, leant back and waited for the Dinner Lady to appear. I can’t remember her name now, but she always came over and helped me cut up my food into bite sized pieces and filled the large metal water jugs on the table, that needed two hands to lift. I precariously charged my glass, most of it spilling over, quickly wiped away by another monitor; dressed in a pink and white tabard, wearing a small white hat and hairnet, that really did nothing to stop hair falling into the food. Part of the course when you ate school meals.
Dinner over it was time to return to class, each of us waiting in turn, to be escorted back for an afternoon of ‘Drama and Dance,’ my favourite lesson. ‘Time to work off all that extra energy after lunch,’ said Mrs B! ‘Time to get big and strong!’
I always have fond memories of school lunches; plain, basic filling food, typical of the time; in contrast the lunches of today. As a product of the 70s, we appreciated the simpler things in life; as children we had very little, none of us any more than anyone else. School Dinners are a reminder of the happy times, spent with friends, enjoying those first steps into childhood; a period when peoples values were different; a time of innocence in a changing World!
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I was up bright and early today, trying to work off those calories I put on yesterday. It's an absolutely lovely day to be honest; hot and not a cloud in the sky. Could winter finally be at an end; lets hope so!
When I got in from my walk I took my blood pressure, after ten minutes; It was 96/77, that's the lowest it has ever been. I am beginning to feel better everyday. I have never really taken any notice of a Dr
in my life, so this is a first for me. However I'm glad and happy that results are showing so soon. As summer returns to Gran Alacant, I'm sure I will become even more active; I may even start learning to swim, something I have never done in my life.
This will be my third summer living on the Costa Blanca; if I am honest, I haven't been great at adjusting to the Spanish way of life. I have continued to eat a British diet and taken little, if any exercise. Now I hope that will all change and I can finally begin to live a healthy lifestyle. The scenery is fantastic in this region, even in winter. There really is no excuse for sitting in doors. A little less writing and a little more walking, is definitely the way forward!
Whatever you are doing today, have a good one!
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