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    Gay Mothers Day!

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    6 March 2016

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    I taught Jamie how to cook scrambled eggs today.  It´s Mothers Day in Britain, so in our case, Gay Mothers Day here in Spain.  Jamie had his usual reaction, saying he didn´t like scrambled eggs, once eaten, he said he enjoyed it.  This has been standard for Jamie and actually the things he thought he hated, he actually doesn´t! 
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    He´s enjoying cooking, and actually is doing it very well.  It is something everyone should know how to do!
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    Jamie pointing out where Benidorm is!

    Scrambled Eggs

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    I´m starting to enjoy Sunday´s again, really enjoy them, rather than recovering from a heavy night, as was the case in  The UK!

    ​We were going to go out Saturday night, but decided to wait until Sunday, so we can catch the Sunday sun.  In the UK, it was rare for me to go out at all, let alone be out every day, spending very little time at home.

    ​The lifestyle is so different here, that I literally want to be out as much as I can, and I am.  It really is a great time to be alive.  It feels like I have come home!
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    Anyway he cooked eggs for Gay Mothers Day and didn´t do a bad job of it at all!
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    Solarium

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    It was another beautiful day here on The Costa Blanca.  From The Solarium, you can see for miles and miles, as far as Benidorm.  ¿Why on earth would anyone want to live in The UK, when you have this on your door step?
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    This is the reason we chose to move to Spain.  Everyday I wake up, I still can´t believe we actually did it.  I still can´t believe we actually live in such a beautiful place. This is the view from our bedroom window.  It is truly glorious.  We are indeed very lucky to live in such a place, and we are also fully aware of the task ahead to allow us to enjoy this for a lifetime.  We will never be going back to The UK, we have no need to!  Life here is good!
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    At this time of year in The UK, you really couldn´t be sat outside, enjoying weather like this, it just would not happen.  The pains I used to get in my chest, have now gone, completely.  The stress I used to suffer is no more and the depression has gone!
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    It´s going to be interesting to see how much this area changes during the summer months.  We are told it will be totally different.  At the moment, the community here is quite small and close knit.  Coming here to Spain in January, has allowed us to integrate easily and get to know those who are resident all year round, like us.  That was the best decision we ever made!
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    The Square

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    A day off from work on Sunday, so we thought we would head to The Square for the day.  The sun was out, it was a bit windy, but it was one of those days, when we just wanted to sit in the sun and enjoy the day. 
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    We were welcomed by Pam at Zest, as we always are.  She is one of the loveliest people we have met here.  She has lived here for about four years and is one of the most positive ambassadors for life here in Spain.  Like everyone, she says with complete certainty, she will never return to The UK.  I know now, the reasons why!
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    Dinner

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    We popped into the local steak house, while we were in The Square.  I was kind of celebrating.  This Sunday, really felt like the beginning of a new life and I love the ´New Beginnings´ feeling.  To be honest, everyday here feels wonderful,  but meeting new residents in The Square, forming friendships and bonds, always makes for more positive vibes.  We are all oozing positivity at the moment and it shows!
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    Positive Vibes!

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    Home!

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    Jamie was a complete mess, a disaster zone, when we arrived here in Spain, after only having a couple of weeks to prepare to leave The UK for good. Well Mr Hough has changed a lot during that time.  I have never seen someone change so much!
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    Jamie has put on a stone in one month.  He has been eating better, sleeping far more and actually turning a better shade of colour in the warm Spanish sun, as are we all.  It is really true to say that the sun does bring out the best in people, in all respects. 
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    Depression

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    I just wanted to say a few words about depression.  Oddly, I haven´t mentioned it much in this particular blog and there is a reason why.  I actually have not suffered from depression since I have been here, at all.  In fact Bipolar has been far from my mind.   I have been enjoying life here so much, the weather, people and of course the lifestyle that I have never felt better.
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    ​It has been a pleasure to get to know The ´Gran´ Ladies here in Alicante, they really have been a fabulous bunch,  People here are very different to those back home and do go out of their way to help whenever they can.  A bit like England of olden times if you like!

    Teaching Jamie

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    One month on, after we arrived in Spain and Jamie is doing fantastically well.  He looks 100% better! It has all been worth it, just to see him, look the way he does now.  It has taken him a lot of hard work!
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    Jamie has given himself two months to get back on track.  He wants to be fit and healthy and then start to look for work and find himself.  To be honest due to the seasonal nature of employment here, it really does not matter if he works or not at the moment.
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    June

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    I wanted to say thank you to June, without who´s help we would have found it much more difficult here in Spain.  She has been a great source of support and information, always offering to do her best.
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    New Job

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    This has been the first week in my new job and I am enjoying it tremendously.  I am working with some of the best people you could ever imagine.  A group of volunteers, who are working towards the same goal and are giving their time and experience to help create a better environment for horses in Spain, who need care and help!
    They are a great bunch of people, many of whom have worked for the Horse Charity for years, some since it was formed by my boss Sue.  Sue is  one of the hardest working, most selfless people I know.  She works seven days a week and does everything, for the horses and donkeys she so loves!
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    There is a small army of volunteers, whose dedication is far and above what I have seen before.  I have of course worked for several charities in The UK and all of the volunteers are fabulous, but the people who work for Easy Horse Care are really, over and above anything I have come across.

    ​These are mainly a group of expats, who have either come here for a better quality of life or retired here in their later years.  They are working for a charity they hold dear and they feel strongly about the cause they are championing, so much so, many of them also work at the Rescue Centre as well!
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    Fish and Chips

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    It´s fish and chips night down The Square on a Thursday!
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    June was down The Square and we had a long chat about life here on The Costa´s, the future, work and life in general.  June is always a great source of inspiration and has this knack of making things feel better, creating those positive vibes!
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    It is a real privilege to Manage two of Sue´s shops, which are all kept extremely well. Everyone´s hard work and positive outlook has paid dividends and all of the shops are making money.  I am currently running between two closely situated shops and relishing the new opportunities ahead here in Spain!
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    I´ve collared Jamie into doing some shifts at the shops as well.  It will give him something to do, before the season starts and I have a feeling, the older workers will Mother him.  They will certainly look out for him.  They are also teaching me Conversational Spanish and once more, we have been welcomed with open arms!
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    Went down to Zest with our Jamie in the afternoon for the weekly ´Battered Cod.´ Best in Alicante by far.  The sun was out and it was hot, boiling hot.  At one stage it was 32 degrees in March.  I am still not used to these temperatures, especially at this time of year!
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    Everyone we have spoken to, said it was the best idea, coming to Spain in January,  so we get to adapt to the Spanish climate!
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    Working

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    Just back from work and it really has been a hot one this week. Thoroughly enjoying my new role and have lots of plans.  The pace here is much slower and the energy I now have is huge.  I am out every day, walking, keeping fit, loosing weight, learning Spanish and getting a tan.  Life finally feels good!
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    First Day at work!

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    Met Jamie at the bar, after his bingo session with the ladies.  Sadly, once again Jamie didn´t win, although he won a bottle of wine again in the keys in a bag challenge, by picking the wrong key, again, yes again!

    It was nice to see everyone out on a sunny, hot, Tuesday and meet some new faces.  Jacqueline from Portsmouth, who met a friend, Martin, living and working in Benidorm on the weekend, mentioning us both.  It really is a small world.

    June was out as usual and the others, whose names I have forgotten already.  I´m sure in time I will remember everyone, but I have met so many people today, that names are just not staying in my head.

    Just a quick blog tonight, as I am tired, but just to say, a big thank you to every one for all their support!
    Had a fantastic first day at work today.  Couldn´t have asked for a better bunch of people to work with.  I was welcomed with open arms and feel very honoured to work for The Horse charity here in Spain.  There is a lot of hard work to do, but I know with the help from the team and support from Darrell and Jamie, things will go well.  I really have not felt this happy in many years.  I am even enjoying the walk over the mountain early in the morning.  I am feeling better than ever.  Thank you to Sue for having the faith in me to make the changes necessary to bring success to our new shop and its sister shop.

    I want to do so much there, so we can care for all the animals the charity looks after.  I know we can build on what we have to continue the good work!
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    Big hugz to everyone back in The UK for all their kind words.  A special thank you to Sara Bowgen, Melissa King and Gavin Manning for their messages over the last few days, it really does give me the motivation to continue moving forward in life.

    Finally thanks to Jamie for his kind words.  We are really proud of you, for all you are achieving!
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    Leap Year!

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    Leap Years are special.  This year we took a leap of faith.  Leap into the unknown and make your own destiny!
           Luke 29 February 2016
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