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    I feel like pulling my hair out!

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    It's time for a rant today, a rant about Spain, which I do from time to time, no matter how much I like living here. I haven't been able to blog for a few days because my internet has been down again, something that happens regularly. You can guarantee that there will be a loss of wifi signal at least twice a week, which isn't great when you rely on the internet for part of your income. It is important for me to get articles in on time, if not I lose money, so once again I have lost a wage because my internet supplier can not get its act together. We are in the 21st century; I pay for a service that I am not getting, which also includes super fast broadband; again something I am not supplied. When I went down to their offices in the GA Centre, there were queues of people, also probably complaining, stretching outside the door, with only one person at the desk! There are plenty of other internet suppliers in Gran Alacant and  I will be voting with my feet, choosing to take my custom else where, when we move in November.

    ​Rant one over, now time for rant number two. I have been without hot water at home for a week now, waiting for our agent to send an engineer round to fix the problem. It is extremely lucky we are in the middle of summer; water comes out the cold water tap lukewarm and you can just about get away with, not having a working boiler, for short periods. Maintenance jobs seem to take forever in Spain, especially in August, where it seems, no one wants to work. The standards of service you receive, are a lot lower than one would expect in the UK. I can't tell you how frustrated I get sometimes, having to spend most of my time waiting, for one workman or another to arrive, giving no firm time of arrival and not phoning before hand; it is totally infuriating and completely unnecessary. Spain has much to learn where customer service is concerned.

    ​Rant number three is a familiar one; yesterday I spent an hour queuing in the international branch of Banco Sabadell, just to pay in some money. Once again the number of people waiting was ten deep. When I finally got to the counter, where there was only one customer service rep, I was told I couldn't pay anything in, as the system was down. In the UK, even if there was a systems failure, you could still pay cash into your account; the process was a little, slower but you were at least able to do so.  No notice was in place explaining the situation and the annoyance on everyone's face, not just mine was palpable. The banks in Spain really do need a shake up. One person dealing with every customer, front of house, while fifteen mill about, at the back is unacceptable. Sabadell really do need to look at their practices.

    On to number four; paperwork. Today I have just got back from the Town Hall, after having to replace my 'Padron' paperwork again. The Padron is like the Electoral Roll in the UK. Here in Spain we have to replace the printed sheet of paper, showing our cohabitation, every three months, a ridiculous palaver but a necessary one; showing that myself and Darrell are living together; part of the process, proving we are still a legitimate couple after 23 years. This and similar procedures, will always be a part of our life it seems, more so now, especially with Brexit looming over the horizon. I have a large file of  paperwork that one needs on a daily basis, and it's huge. If you are thinking of moving to Spain, then for Gods sake research the documentation you will need, it will save a lot of time and money in the future.

    The rules that govern driving a car in Spain; my fifth and final moan today, is a constant source of exasperation. Whilst the ITV system, rather like the UK's MOT is a much more efficient way, of having ones car checked each year, the rest of the formalities involved, is a nightmare. For novices, like myself and Darrell, It is easier to pay someone to do all the necessary administration, transferring ownership of a vehicle. There is no possibility of completing the official paperwork without help. Spain also has some rather funny rules and regulations, you must follow when driving a car; something that amuses me more than anything. You can not drive shirtless, can not wear flip flops and you can not put your hand out of a car window, whilst driving; the list is endless. When you have a beaten up old car like ours, the first thing you want to do is stick your arm out of the car window, whilst moving, in the severe heat of the day. All I can say is, it's a good job I can't drive. The Police are also very keen on issuing on the spot fines, for driving offences. If you don't follow the rules, including speeding and most importantly drink driving, you will be prosecuted and the penalties are huge; 500€ is not uncommon. If I had hair, I would be pulling it out!

    RANT OVER! Apart from the above, I am having a wonderful day #stilllovingspain
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    Respect for Words; respect for those receiving them!

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    Words are just words aren't they? Well yes they are, but as people, do we use them too lightly, without understanding their true meaning? The biggest example I can give, is social media, facebook in particular. Personally I am a big fan of this medium, connecting the world through the internet, but like most things that are popular, it does have its banal side, can be rather prosaic, vacuous and encourages bad use of grammar and a misunderstanding of words used. It is easy to type a message to others, rather than pick up the phone or speak face to face; we articulate with friends and colleagues in this way everyday. In all but name, facebook is a channel for oral communication, even when sentences are used instead of sounds. In these modern times, we really do use messaging, facetime, messenger and whatsapp, far more than we actually use our own voice, to communicate a message; it is important therefore, that we realise what we are composing.

    Last night I was randomly scanning through facebook, as I do quite often. I saw the predictable platitudes, falsehoods and cringeworthy status updates, from the usual suspects; no surprise for me, about who they were. Anything I write on social media is true; I will not lie; this has got me in a lot of trouble in the past but I am not in the habit of talking nonsense to anyone. If I don't like someone I can quite easily remove them from my life; easier to do now, than it once was, especially with a block button on facebook and a wealth of knowledge and previous experience; we are after all, all of us,  the sum of our own experiences. As I scrolled through my facebook updates, I was surprised to recognise words, that had once been said to me, from someone no longer in my life. Even when one blocks a person, one does occasionally see the odd statement, here and there, from people you would rather not entertain.

    I am under no illusions about people, I am well aware of who and what they are; when you suffer at the hands of a sociopath, reading others character becomes second nature. At the first sign of a repeat performance, I have been warned to remove the problem; warning signs light up across someones brow, larger than life, like you wouldn't believe; just as it does on facebook, as it did last night. The only word I would use, to describe my reaction, is disappointment; regret I ever bothered to get to know them, dismay at their banality and disenchantment with human nature as a result. For a moment I felt a little over sensitive about words written, a repeat of those said to me; empty without sincerity and clearly a phrase used many times towards those popular at a given point in time. Words are indeed easy to say; once written down, they are hard to dismiss. The phrases we write to each other, often tell us a lot about an individual, a story about our genuineness and authenticity, how real and original we are and the ingenuous nature of all of us. Yesterday I woke up and started to realise just who matters in life; my partner and I should stop acting so heartbroken and upset.

    When one makes a conscious decision to dissolve a friendship, one doesn't do it lightly. Past indiscretions would see me hanging on to the most destructive alliances, preferring to keep people close, rather than lose them, no matter what the consequences. The locution of someone I once held in high regard, should really pay no part in my thought process, but like most of us, who have feelings, I do take things very personally at times.  Words are just words, but please be careful how you use them. When you use sensitive phrases, understand their importance to the person receiving them. Do not play with their emotions, there are enough false, fallacious, erroneous individuals in the World, without adding another one to the list!

    Stay true!


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    Wildling & Mollie - Looking for a new home!

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    We have now named our two foster cats, Wildling and Mollie. They are both doing fantastically well, eating us out of house and home! Mollie seems to have all the personality at the moment, running around the house, playing with anything she can find, including wires it seems. Little Wildling, is much smaller and still extremely nervous around humans, but we are gradually coaxing her round. If you would like to offer these two adorable kittens a home, please contact me, using the contact details on this website, through the Gran Alacant Advertiser, or pop into LoungeD.
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    Week Three!

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    We have just past our third week at LoungeD and everything is going well; much better than any of us could have hoped for. This last week has certainly been the busiest so far; we are delighted with the feedback, response and the reviews you are leaving on our facebook page; can't thank you all enough. Today is Sunday and we are all looking forward to a busy evening in Masa Square, as The Pub, puts on another spectacular show!
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    R.I.P. Sir Bruce

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    Nice to see you, to see you, nice!

    Sir Bruce Forsyth 1928-2017: One of Britain's best loved entertainers died yesterday; the amazing Sir Bruce Forsyth. As a child I grew up watching the 'Generation Game' and 'Play Your Cards Right;' two of my favourite game shows. Sir Bruce was funny, energetic, characterful and so full of life. It is sad when anyone dies, Sir Bruce, no exception; he was a big part of my childhood; one of the last, in a long line of entertainers to leave this mortal coil. R.I.P. Brucie; you will be sadly missed by everyone who knew you; family, friends and spectators to your fantastic achievements and a life fulfilled!
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    Lily!

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    Lily is still on antibiotics, after a bad virus. As you can see from the photograph, she looks healthier now, more than ever. Whenever she takes medication, her gammy eyes tend to clear up. She is walking around in a bit of a daze at the moment; another two days and she can properly meet the new kittens!
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