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    Looking Towards 2025!

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    Just after Christmas, all of us at work went out for a meal at the Bailey Brewing Company, in Swan Valley. This isn't a place I have been to before, but the large family friendly venue offers something for everyone, and we all had a wonderful time. 

    Working in retail, during the Christmas period, can be testing, but this year, everything went like clockwork. This was our first Christmas working in the new outlet store, and it has been busy, unlike anything I have seen before. Mind you, having said that, Tesco, back in the good old UK, was probably the nearest equivalent, and equally I enjoyed the cut, thrust and throng then too. I relish a thriving, busy, retail environment; yes all of us have worked hard, but the rewards are showing —  the business has grown from strength to strength and that is important. As Manager, I am delighted with its progress, just as the rest of the company is as well.

    I have accepted praise from my superiors, on behalf of the outlet, and I am so happy the team are motivated, focused and suitably inspired. I am of course lucky, to be working with some wonderful characters, but I am also content being employed by a company, whose inclusive, empowering culture, is streets above any I have experienced before!

    With Christmas now at an end, it's time to look forward to 2025 and the challenges that lie ahead. In a little over a year, I will be applying for Australian citizenship, so I have started the process of researching the exams I will have to take, to show commitment to my new home.

    Despite ongoing health issues, I am optimistic enough to look forward, to a bright, new, industrious future. It looks like we will be seeing friends from the UK this year as well, who are planning visits in a few months, and that has lifted my spirits. I haven't been feeling myself for quite a while now, so anything that gives me reason to celebrate is welcome.

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    This Sunday we spent the day at Scarborough Beach. The weather was a scorching 34 degrees, but with the cooler sea breeze, it was lovely sitting down the front having a few beers, while Darrell swam in the ocean — not something I would do myself, of course.

    Lunch was spent at the Galway Hooker with a superb Sunday Roast, and a pint of Swan Draught on a hot sunny day. I may well be living in Australia, but I still like a good traditional Sunday lunch from time to time, it really does remind me of home.

    I have had a roast at the Galway Hooker before and didn't go much on it if I am honest, so I was in two minds about going back. However, this time, it was nearly perfect. I say nearly, because, like every place I have been to in Australia, they just can't cook roast potatoes, the way the British do. They definitely need me to give them a lesson or two, on how to do it, just like my Granny did!
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    After an early lunch, we headed to Karrinyup for a spot of Sunday shopping, except I didn't buy a thing — my shopaholic days are well and truly over now. In the past, I spent a fortune on stuff I didn't need, but these days, I am very choosy about what I buy. These days, Darrell and I don't want for anything, so we just try to live our life a little more frugally.

    Karrinyup is rather overpriced, situated in one of the most affluent suburbs in Western Australia. The shops are expensive, and like most of Australia, the choice is still rather limited. Looking around, there was nothing that I felt compelled to buy, and for me that's a good thing. I would rather have a good rummage around an OP Shop (Charity Shop for the Brits), where you are always guaranteed to find a bargain. No matter where I live in the World, I will always be a fan of second hand shops — which are hugely underrated!

    This evening I spoke to my Father back in the UK for nearly two hours. We always have a good chat, especially since we haven't spoken since before Christmas. Life in the UK seems as bad as ever — the NHS is at breaking point, political drama, freezing cold weather, and Dad and I, chatting about are respective health issues.

    I do miss my Father as you would expect; I hope to travel back to Britain in the next few years to see him, but for me, life is very much in Australia now, no matter how much I miss home. I do especially miss the friends I have there, but, I know I'm far better off here, living life successfully, unlike years gone by. Building a new life down under hasn't been easy, but it has been worth the pain, to finally be in a good and successful place — let's hope 2025 brings more of the same!
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    It's been a bloody difficult few weeks if I am honest!

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    Darrell and I have just returned from the city, after spending a lazy Sunday, Christmas shopping and having lunch. This is the first time we have travelled to Perth in about two months; we have been so busy that we just haven't had the time. Of course, the CBD is now adorned with festive decorations, lights, and a large Christmas tree opposite the railway station; despite the sweltering summer heat, even I am starting to feel a little bit Christmassy!
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    Temperatures have been particularly hot, compared to 2023, and I am told this year's summer will be even hotter than the last — that suits me perfectly. However, I am all too aware, of the difficulties of living in Australia, in such a severe climate.

    Darrell has just given up vaping. This has been hard for him since he has smoked or vaped for many years, but this time it is a case of having to!

    Darrell has been diagnosed with Macular Degeneration, which in part is to do with his smoking and vaping, but also the weather here in Western Australia. With the sun incredibly bright, and without 400 UV protective sunglasses over many years, he has paid the ultimate price. Both of us are staying positive and hoping the rate of deterioration can be stemmed for now. Of course, only time will tell — weekly monitoring and regular eye tests will help — changing old habits will help a hell of a lot more!
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    With Christmas just two weeks away, the last Christmas card I received from Mum when she was alive is on display. I always think of my Mother at this time of year. Speaking to my Father, back home in the UK tonight, we reminisced about Christmasses past, and how much we used to enjoy them, unlike today. 

    Things have changed dramatically over the years, and although I still love this time of year, it just isn't the same. Living in the Southern Hemisphere has changed my concept of Christmas. Oh, I still put up a few decorations and a tree, enjoy sending Christmas cards to friends and family, and buy presents for our nearest and dearest — that's something that will never change. However, I am aware, that for the most part, it will just be me and Darrell celebrating together — so different to years gone by. 

    There won't be a large Christmas roast, just cold meats, and salad around a neighbour's house. Nobody wants to be cooking a three-course British Christmas Dinner on the 25th, least of all me. This year, I will be putting my feet up, and letting someone else do all the work. This will make a pleasant change, since I am the one who usually does it all.

    Both Darrell and I remarked, earlier, how much we miss Christmas with friends in Southampton. We truly had some memorable times, with some remarkable characters; not traditional celebrations, but rather unconventional in nature, partying with like-minded individuals and enjoying the festive cheer. 

    Things are very different now and that can be hard to come to terms with!
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    The past two weeks have been somewhat difficult if I am honest. After Darrell's news about his eyesight, I was due in hospital for a procedure, that had been planned for several months. This wasn't something I was looking forward to, but an absolute necessity, especially at my age. Thankfully, living in Australia, I didn't have to wait too long, and it was carried out quickly, without incident. Nevertheless, the procedure did throw up some concern, after two small tumours were removed.

    This was completely unexpected, but after a follow-up meeting with my GP, to discuss the histology report, I was hopeful it wasn't anything to worry about, at least in the short term. I will have to have a follow-up hospital appointment in February, but for now, I am putting it to the back of my mind, along with the anxiety I suffer from, on a daily basis.
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    None of us are getting any younger, and I am more aware than most of impending old age creeping up on me, faster every day. In truth, I don't like being 53, and I am not enjoying middle age. I have, however, worked hard to stay fit and healthy over the last four years, and I am doing everything I can to keep my weight under control.  I understand the damage I have done to my body over the years, and although I can not reverse it, I am hopeful I can at least stop the rot in its tracks. 

    This week I heard from a friend back in the UK, Julie, who I used to work with at The Newcome Arms in Fratton. Sadly, her long-term partner had passed away; naturally, she was devastated. I didn't know Bill very well, but he was a wonderful character, who was always kind, and courteous towards me, and an absolute pleasure to know.

    I felt so upset for her and her family, losing a loved one, especially at this time of year. Bill wasn't an old man, but his sudden passing made me realise, just how fragile all our lives are. 

    There are times I feel down and depressed, but I am so grateful for the life I now lead. It may well be quiet and uneventful, like most people's lives in Australia, but it is successful, fruitful, and extremely productive, who could possibly ask for more. 

    When someone dies, you often think about your own mortality. I was close to Julie at work and have frequently thought about her. The death of Bill will affect many of those I knew in Portsmouth, and I am just glad I got to know him, and all those from The Newcome Arms. With Christmas just around the corner, it is so important to remember the good times, because those were the occasions that got me through my worst days. People like Bill were the fabric of a neighbourhood that welcomed me with open arms, and that is an aspect of life I miss, living in Australia,

    Hopefully, the next few weeks will be better than the last, and Darrell and I can look forward to another happy Christmas together. Putting personal issues to the back of my mind, it's time to look positively towards the future, and put the last few weeks behind us! I will be glad to see the back of 2024, as I'm sure most of you will. This has not been the happiest of years, so lets hope 2025 surprises all of us and is the start of something better!
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    What a Tiring Week — Infection update and a new start!

    So after three weeks, my raging infection is finally at an end! I feel totally drained and exhausted, and thankful the hospital was able to treat this penicillin-resistant disease successfully. For a while, I really thought I would end up in a hospital bed for the week.  Fortunately, however, they were able to treat me as an outpatient — administering IV antibiotics for a few days, followed by a two-week course of oral antibiotics!

    This has been the second time I have had this infection, and as a precaution my GP ordered a series of blood tests, to see what was going on. He was initially concerned about diabetes or an immunosuppressant condition, but after receiving the results, my anxious mind was put at ease. All the results came back clear, and I was given a clean bill of health.

    Of course, I am still slightly concerned about my apparent predisposition to contracting Staphylococcus Aureus, especially while travelling. However, my Doctor has reassured me, that it isn't anything to worry about. He explained that a combination of hot and humid weather in Southeast Asia and foreign bacteria have probably contributed to my recent spate of infections. It is also important to note, that when you are travelling, you tend to get run down — mainly through lack of sleep; this is another factor, in why my body has reacted in the way it has.

    It is nice to finally be free of this nasty staph infection and cellulitis that followed as a result, but it is certainly a warning sign to slow down. Not only are we both working full-time, but we are also travelling every five or six months, during our time off. This hectic schedule is really taking its toll. We have decided to travel around Australia for the next year and venture back to Asia in 2026 — obviously, if I don't get itchy feet first!
    With my infection over, it was time for a new start. Just a few days after being given the all-clear, I was beginning a new journey, opening a new store in Western Australia. 

    I have been working for the same company in Australia for the last two years, although I have moved across brands during that time. Initially selling bedding, I am now managing a designer clothing store, which was completely out of my comfort zone. Nevertheless, I have persevered, and have learned every aspect of the business. It is also a time for me to embrace change; I have worked in many retail environments during my years in the trade, and have adopted a flexible attitude to job opportunities. Retailing is a sphere I know very well; after 30 years working in shops, I should do — for that reason alone! I am comfortable working in any related sector I put my mind to. Adapting to changing circumstances is key to success; if you enjoy people, and have the ability to communicate successfully, you will do well, especially in Australia!

    The new store opened on Saturday, and it has been busy — very busy! Customers seem impressed by the new design and have supported us in huge numbers. I couldn't be happier, and I know my team feel the same. This is of course just the start of this new enterprise, and so far the signs are looking good. The feedback we have received during our first few days has been amazing, and I feel this is the start of a prosperous future for all of us in Midland. 

    After the awful infection I had just a few days ago, my mental well-being was low, but, thankfully, my week has improved, and my head is in a much better place, ending on a high note. I am looking forward to the future, and putting past negativity behind me. A new adventure is often all it takes to feel back in top form; being able to concentrate on something better, something new and untested, has lifted my spirits and given me hope for the future. After such a debilitating time, on my return from Taiwan, the jigsaw pieces seem to be falling into place, and I am finally feeling well once again!
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