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    Day 2 - The day we met, 30 years ago: reliving old memories!

    30th Anniversary Milestones Thailand And Singapore 2025 Travel blog
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    Well, there you have it, Darrell and I have reached another milestone in our life together. Today we celebrated 30 years together as a couple, and ten years married. I never thought I would be saying that after the trials and tribulations we have suffered throughout our life. With the memories of our relationship firmly on both our minds, we decided to take a trip down memory lane and revisit some of our old Bangkok favourites, that have played such a large role in our recent history.

    When we left the UK in 2022, we first visited family in Croatia and then took a trip to Thailand. We fell in love with this Asian country almost straight away and have been back twice since. Bangkok remains our destination of choice. This vibrant, busy city is so full on, in contrast to our Western Australian home, that it hurts. Both of us prefer the bright lights of city life, and coming here always reminds us of the life we once led — not so long ago.
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    We began the day by taking a river cruise along the Chao Phraya River in Bangkok. This really is a special place, and a great experience to enjoy, relax and unwind. Today the temperature was a perfect 26 degrees, although it did feel a hell of a lot hotter, with the humidity in the 90s. This is of course in stark contrast to Western Australia. 26 degrees down under, can, and often does, feel positively freezing. Being a desert, WA just doesn't have the humidity Thailand does. The dry heat during the day can feel cold at night. I have personally always preferred humid climbs, which is probably why I love Bangkok so much!
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    ​As we cruised along the Chao Phraya, it was fantastic seeing all the old sites once again: The Grand Palace, and of course Wat Arun where we stopped at to take a walk down memory lane. This is probably the most famous Wat or temple in Bangkok and is richly decorated in colourful, distinctive Thai style; it is a wondrous sight as you travel up the river. This is a destination I would come back to time and time again and is always bursting with many happy memories!
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    As I got off the boat, I banged my elbow on the side of the rather dirty counter and immediately panicked. This was the very elbow, I was being so careful to protect, after contracting a severe strain of staphylococcus aureus on the last two holidays we went on, in exactly the same place. I could not believe it. After all the preparation and careful planing, I had once again whacked the same elbow — my heart literally sank.

    Thankfully, I was carrying some antiseptic with me, which I quickly sprayed over the now painful graze, and we quickly got back on the boat, heading towards Icon Siam. Here I managed to find a Boots Pharmacy and grabbed some cream and plasters. This time, I am doing everything I can to stop any infection in its tracks. At the moment it is looking rather dodgy, but, with my bag of medical supplies, I am just praying nothing bad will happen. Known me, however, it will, and I'm truly holding my breath!
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    Arriving at Icon Siam, Darrell wanted one of their famous shaved ice desserts, which are legendary in Bangkok and they taste bloody lovely. They are a little pricey, however, but when one of these refreshing confections is enough for two or even three people, they are certainly great value for money.

    Icon Siam is probably the most expensive shopping mall in Bangkok, full of designer shops, and high value goods for sale. It is worth having a wonder around this vast complex, however, as the food court on the ground floor is pretty reasonably priced. There is also a large market inside selling local Thai handicrafts and art, also on the bottom floor. The luxury air-conditioned building, is the perfect place to keep cool for a few hours, while window shopping for some luxuries, that Darrell and I, certainly wouldn't be able to afford. It is nice to dip in every now and again, just to see how the other half live!
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    After a quick walk to the famous Khaosan Road to get some souvenirs and a quick snack, we popped back to the hotel to freshen up before heading to, So Samsen, for our anniversary meal. This was the part of the holiday I was really looking forward to, and I wasn't disappointed.

    The wonderful owner, Aom, had arranged a bottle of bubbly for Darrell and me, which was a lovely gesture from a welcoming and friendly host. Aom has always been an absolute pleasure to talk with, offering some friendly advice and often chatting about life in Thailand. I have always found Thai people extremely courteous and affable — nothing is too much for them, and they just want to be sure you are enjoying their country and hospitality, that they are rightly proud of; after all, they don't call Thailand the land of smiles for nothing.

    We spent a good few hours drinking wine and a few pints of Chang, while chatting with the staff and other customers. Sat there looking out across the road, with a busy 7-Eleven opposite, watching urban life pass by, I was reminded by the vivacity, energy, and exuberance this city offers. I am indeed a fan of urban life, because of the many wonderful characters you meet, each with their own story to tell.

    Bangkok is a manic cosmopolitan city, encompassing tourists from every corner of the globe. For that reason alone, it is worth visiting. For us returning year after year, we are transported back to our happy place, after leaving adverse times in Portsmouth in 2022, before we started our new life down under. Back then, as now, Aom and the girls offered us a comfortable setting in which to sit and unwind, after one of the most turbulent years of our life.

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    So Samsen, was the only choice for us to return to on our 30th Anniversary. This was us coming home to see old friends in a setting we adore. The Michelin Star food is without exception the best we have tasted in Bangkok, and I always look forward to my time here. This was indeed another memory made, as we enter the fourth decade of our life together. We are of course a lot older than we were — our aches and pains get more every day, and the simpler things in life are all that matters now. This is a holiday we have been planning for a long time, and it is also the end of one life and the beginning of something new, as we gently drift into older age!
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    From So Samsen, we took a brisk walk to the colourful Khaosan Road, to say farewell to this special part of Bangkok, before we leave tomorrow morning. Heading to Soi 11, right in the centre of the city, we will continue the rest of our time in Bangkok, until we leave for Singapore on Sunday!
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    Day 1 - Destination Asia

    30th Anniversary Thailand And Singapore 2025 Travel blog
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    When departing Australia, it is usual for Darrell and I to take the dreaded night flight. Despite Perth being a so-called international airport, we always seem to be relegated to the worst flights of the day. This time however, we managed to get what is probably the second-worst flight. Leaving at 6.30 am, we made our way to terminal one and our first flight to Chiangi Airport in Singapore. 

    This was a short stopover of four hours on our way to Bangkok, just so we could get a flavour of the place, before we meet Justin there next week, on the second leg of our journey. For now, however, that was the beginning of our two-week holiday to Asia, celebrating our 30 years together as a couple (10 years married).  Despite the ups and downs of health, I was finally given the all clear to travel by my eye Doctor just one day before we were due to fly. Talk about cutting it fine! Nevertheless, as I approach my 55th Birthday, I am mindful that I am no longer young and can not do the things I used to do. For that reason, I will be taking it a little easier this time and trying to have a more relaxing holiday!
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    With terminal 1 at Perth International Airport resembling a building site, there was even less to do than last year. In our usual customary way, we were there three hours before, and there were very few shops open; even I avoided having the obligatory beer before I left, preferring a more sophisticated smashed avocado on toast and a cup of green tea. I had only had a couple of hours sleep before we left, and I was feeling decidedly cranky, not the most auspicious start to our holiday.

    The flight to Singapore was a delight. There was absolutely no turbulence, the food was delicious and service impeccable. I will of course never pay for business class, believing it's completely overrated. When I walked off the flight on arrival at Changi Airport, passing through the business class suites, they look just as bad, if not worse, as the economy class cabin we had just left. When you think how much people pay for these tickets, the expense is just unjustifiable. I would be kicking myself if I had just wasted all that cash, only to feel just as bad as I do normally — plus I'm a tight-fisted old b'stard in any case!
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    Changi Airport is out of this world, unlike anything I have ever seen before. I suppose Kuala Lumpur Airport was up there with the best of them, but nothing like this. From projections of swimming aquatic life on the ceilings of the terminal buildings, huge waterfalls, surprisingly good value food and of course overpriced beer, this is truly a destination in itself!
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    I did read an article before I left about this vast international hub, and it really does put the rest of the World to shame. Singaporeans often visit it on a weekend, to just enjoy the facilities, and with us transiting through on a Sunday, the place was packed.  I was struck by the polite nature of the inhabitants of Singapore and their willingness to go out of their way to help you. They are indeed one of the most polite nationalities I have ever come across and most definitely put us Aussies to shame.
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    Despite the positive nature of Singapore, I was understandably rather worried about the costs. I was aware of how expensive it is from other people who have been there in the past, so when you are presented with a $21 bill for a 500ml glass of beer, you just know it's going to burn a hole in your budget.

    We did eat a delicious meal at the street food hawker centre in terminal three, however, which was fantastic value for money. This goes to show that you can find some good bargains if you look around, even at the World's most expensive airport.
     
    Amazingly, we came across the Butterfly Garden, in terminal 3 of the airport. It was stunning! Walking through, feeling the hot tropical air, surrounded by thousands of fluttering butterflies, is an experience like no other. I can't quite believe this place even exists at Changi, but it is perfect for people like us, to briefly explore whilst waiting for our connecting flight. Usually I would spend hours sat on a seat scrolling through my phone, as the hours ticked by, here I was able to keep myself occupied, right up to the moment of departure.

    We then took the sky train from terminal 3, back to terminal 2. where our flight was departing. As we were whisked through this vast complex I was reminded of the film 'Logan's Run' set in a futuristic dystopian earth. Changi looked like a vision from a SCIFI movie, and I was in awe of the place. 

    We passed by an area known as 'The Jewel', despite being inside the airport complex, this green, lush, tropical landscape, highlighted by a large waterfall in the centre, was the showpiece of Changi. I was gobsmacked by the sheer size of it. It really was a wonderful sight as we passed by in the train, and I was struck by the numbers of people just enjoying this attraction on a Sunday afternoon.
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    Once again, it was another perfect flight from Singapore to Bangkok. Singapore Airlines is fast becoming one of my favourite airlines of choice. However, I was absolutely shattered when I arrived in Thailand. Surprisingly, despite arriving at peak hour, we were off the plane and through customs very quickly.

    Having been to this airport three times before, it is usually packed with travellers trying to get through Boarder Control. This time, after the introduction of the new TDAC, (electronic arrivals card) system, the process was relatively fast. I had to apply for this official document online three days before, which in itself was very straight forward, and the claim that this would speed up the processing of visitors arriving was actually accurate. Now I have heard this all before, from other countries, but this was one time when we were actually told the truth. Take it from me, it was speedy — just make sure you get your TDAC card before you leave.

    I had organised an air-conditioned minivan to take us from the airport to the Nouvo Hotel in Phra Nakhon. This is always a chaotic process as you wait for your pickup through a mixture of broken English WhatsApp messages and drivers holding boards with names on. If you think Singapore is busy, then Bangkok will blow your mind. There were thousands of tired tourists looking for their ride, and it took a good half an hour before we were on our way to the Nouvo Hotel.

    We always stay at The Nouvo Hotel when we are here. It is right opposite our favourite restaurant, So Samsen, and ideal to stagger back to after a few pints of Chang. It is comfortable, clean and the breakfast is to die for. Furthermore, it is a Muslim hotel, which doesn't serve alcohol, which is fine for us, since we always have a drink over the road. The staff here are exceptional, and I highly recommend it, should you visit this part of Bangkok.
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    After a shower and deep clean (Yes I still worry about catching staph while travelling) we headed over the road to So Samsen, to enjoy an amazing Thai Curry and chat with the girls, who are always a joy! Tomorrow, on our 30th Anniversary, we will be back for more!
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    Death of Pope Francis - A lurch to the right?

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    Currently, I am sat at home watching the funeral of Pope Francis, thousands of miles from Europe, and The Vatican City, where the late Pontiff is being laid to rest. This is a place Darrell and I have visited twice before; it is a city that left a lasting impression on me, and not for the reasons you may expect.

    Darrell and I were staying in Rome for a few days, near to the Colosseum.  Just being in this ancient capital was a dream come true. Around every Roman corner, along every cobbled street and colourful piazza, this is indeed a city I love with all my heart. Italy itself is the most glorious Country I have ever visited, so steeped in history. Each Italian city we have stayed in hasn't failed to impress, but by far the most majestic, was The Vatican itself.

    We walked through a busy St Peter's square; the sun shone brightly, illuminating our way towards the awe-inspiring Basilica — the Church of St Peter. This was a pilgrimage in all but name, for an art lover like me. I wanted to see every inch of this ancient wonder — every statue, fresco, painting, and tomb. As I entered the building, I wasn't disappointed; everywhere I looked, took my breath away; this church was there to impress people like me, The house of the eternal Father, on this mortal, fallible Earth. 

    Darrell had walked on ahead, and I was left gingerly walking through the holiest place on the planet, when all of a sudden, I felt quite overcome — almost faint. I put my hand against a pillar, to steady my gaze. I was sweating profusely and experienced emotions, that I can't really describe. At this moment, a priest approached me and took my arm. I remember, he asked me if I was Italian, by uttering the word 'Italiano'. I shook my head and replied, 'Inglese'. He began speaking to me in broken English, assuring me, I would be OK, and helped me make my way outside.

    I'm not really sure what happened that day, whether I had a panic attack, or a spiritual moment of enlightenment, but I did fall in love with The Vatican. After a breath of fresh air, I thanked the priest and after a few moments, made my way inside once more, where I finally caught up with Darrell. Together we continued our tour, and ended by rubbing the foot of St Peter, as thousands have done before, standing in wonderment at this magnificent building, just consuming the divine mysteries inside. 

    As I grow older, I may well discover the reasons behind my 'experience' in St Peter's Basilica, or I just may put it down to a rather hot day in Rome, taking its toll. Whatever happened, I am well aware of the significance of the church in my life, no matter how small, and more importantly, I respect any man who has dedicated his life in the service of others. The Pope will indeed be remembered for his humbleness, wisdom, and ability to connect with the young, but for me, he will be the one Pope who very nearly brought me to his door. Now that is an achievement in my book. My Grandfather converted to Catholicism on his deathbed, like so many before him; it is a reminder of just how much we all change as we get older and discover faith we never knew we had!
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    What a Tiring Week — Infection update and a new start!

    Australia Taiwan 2024 Travel Weight Loss Health blog
    So after three weeks, my raging infection is finally at an end! I feel totally drained and exhausted, and thankful the hospital was able to treat this penicillin-resistant disease successfully. For a while, I really thought I would end up in a hospital bed for the week.  Fortunately, however, they were able to treat me as an outpatient — administering IV antibiotics for a few days, followed by a two-week course of oral antibiotics!

    This has been the second time I have had this infection, and as a precaution my GP ordered a series of blood tests, to see what was going on. He was initially concerned about diabetes or an immunosuppressant condition, but after receiving the results, my anxious mind was put at ease. All the results came back clear, and I was given a clean bill of health.

    Of course, I am still slightly concerned about my apparent predisposition to contracting Staphylococcus Aureus, especially while travelling. However, my Doctor has reassured me, that it isn't anything to worry about. He explained that a combination of hot and humid weather in Southeast Asia and foreign bacteria have probably contributed to my recent spate of infections. It is also important to note, that when you are travelling, you tend to get run down — mainly through lack of sleep; this is another factor, in why my body has reacted in the way it has.

    It is nice to finally be free of this nasty staph infection and cellulitis that followed as a result, but it is certainly a warning sign to slow down. Not only are we both working full-time, but we are also travelling every five or six months, during our time off. This hectic schedule is really taking its toll. We have decided to travel around Australia for the next year and venture back to Asia in 2026 — obviously, if I don't get itchy feet first!
    With my infection over, it was time for a new start. Just a few days after being given the all-clear, I was beginning a new journey, opening a new store in Western Australia. 

    I have been working for the same company in Australia for the last two years, although I have moved across brands during that time. Initially selling bedding, I am now managing a designer clothing store, which was completely out of my comfort zone. Nevertheless, I have persevered, and have learned every aspect of the business. It is also a time for me to embrace change; I have worked in many retail environments during my years in the trade, and have adopted a flexible attitude to job opportunities. Retailing is a sphere I know very well; after 30 years working in shops, I should do — for that reason alone! I am comfortable working in any related sector I put my mind to. Adapting to changing circumstances is key to success; if you enjoy people, and have the ability to communicate successfully, you will do well, especially in Australia!

    The new store opened on Saturday, and it has been busy — very busy! Customers seem impressed by the new design and have supported us in huge numbers. I couldn't be happier, and I know my team feel the same. This is of course just the start of this new enterprise, and so far the signs are looking good. The feedback we have received during our first few days has been amazing, and I feel this is the start of a prosperous future for all of us in Midland. 

    After the awful infection I had just a few days ago, my mental well-being was low, but, thankfully, my week has improved, and my head is in a much better place, ending on a high note. I am looking forward to the future, and putting past negativity behind me. A new adventure is often all it takes to feel back in top form; being able to concentrate on something better, something new and untested, has lifted my spirits and given me hope for the future. After such a debilitating time, on my return from Taiwan, the jigsaw pieces seem to be falling into place, and I am finally feeling well once again!
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    Bite/Infection? — The aftermath of our holiday to Taiwan!

    Taiwan 2024 Travel Weight Loss Health blog
    After returning from Taiwan, I have been suffering from a severe infection, that I was told probably came from a bite, most likely a spider. Arriving home, I didn't think too much about the tiny spot on my elbow, but over the next few days, I became concerned about what the blemish was turning into.

    It was clear, that whatever was going on was not normal. This tiny spot had grown significantly; it was red, angry, inflamed, and clearly infected. Suitably alarmed, I went down to the Urgent Care Clinic in Midland, where after an assessment, I was prescribed a generic antibiotic, ointment, and other medical goodies, to try to resolve the situation. However, after six doses, I just knew something more serious was going on. After a visit from my Mother-in-Law and neighbour, both of whom appeared alarmed at the size of the infection, I made my way to the Emergency Department at St John of God Hospital, here in Midland.

    I waited just under an hour to get through to the assessment. Usually, it takes far longer, which underlines just how seriously they regarded my predicament. I was assessed quickly, by a wonderful team of Doctors and nurses, who, after referring to my previous hospital notes, prescribed me IV antibiotics, but not the usual penicillin ones. The last infection I had was resistant to standard antibiotics, so they assumed this one would be also.

    A member of the nursing team drew marks on my arm, determining the extent of the infection, and I was told I could go home and return tomorrow for more antibiotics. They decided to leave the pic line in, explaining that I may need more treatment going forward.

    Obviously, my main concern is just what is this infection? My anxious mind suggests it could be MRSA, and that was also a concern of the medical professionals. However, I am a long way from that diagnosis, and the hope is, it is something far more treatable!
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