Aunty Carol!

I wasn't going to blog today, as I have been out since early this morning, but I wanted to say a few words about my dear Aunty Carol. I am trying to get back to the UK as soon  as I can, just to tie up a few lose ends and more importantly, see family; relations I haven't seen in such a long time, including my Mother, Father and my Aunty Carol or rather Great Aunty Carol. My dear Great Aunt is currently battling cancer and I would like to wish her much love, as she travels this difficult journey with her family by her side. Cancer is such a terrible illness, something we all need to work to overcome. I have my own experiences of it through Darrell, my partner, who has been helping his Mother fight her own battle; staying with her in Australia for seven months last year, supporting her through the endless appointments and chemotherapy. Also my Uncle Peter, and his daughter Vanessa died from cancer; I remember my lovely cousin Vanessa, right up until the end. She was such a brave lady, someone who remains firmly in my heart, along with the memories of happy times spent with her before she died. Every family has their own story to tell; I salute all of those suffering with cancer, their families and those caring for patients and relatives; they deserve our respect and admiration!

I have been feeling particularly emotional lately, with regards to family. When my Cousin Carrie-Anne messaged me earlier, I knew I had to say a few words about all those I love, something I don't do too often, since remaining rather aloof from my kinfolk for many years. As one gets older, memories become more important and my connection to the past is of paramount importance. I don't want to leave this World without reconnecting with my family. Despite the heartache and upset of the past, I love all those who have played a part in my upbringing, childhood and those special events, when we were altogether as one, celebrating the important moments, milestones and occasions in our lives. 

I would like to wish my Aunty Carol, best wishes for a speedy recovery at this time. Keep fighting for yourself and the family who love you. Always dignified, compassionate and loving, you are a lady whose dignity shines through; a person I look up to, brave and selfless, a truly special individual, who just happens to be my Aunt, whom I love with all my heart!