The Singapore MRT is unlike anything I have seen before. Apart from anything else, the platforms, stations, and trains were virtually empty, as we made our way to Marina Sands. The system its self is orderly, exceptionally clean and above all safe. There is one aspect of it I find particularly strange, and it is the lack of advertising. In any other public transport system across the World, you will see posters on every wall and train - in Singapore, none! There is no advertising whatsoever; I don't know if that is part of the Singaporean culture, but the walls of the MRT system are empty, and it makes for a very dystopian and eerie feel.

Our first stop was Marina Bay Sands and the Merlion. Now, so far I haven't been particularly impressed by Singapore. It isn't my usual destination of choice and I do find it just a little boring, for want of a better word. Bangkok is the complete opposite of this place. It is manic, disorganised, and full of history, heritage, and people — lots and lots of people. In Singapore, the streets are empty; perfectly sanitised, but completely empty.

This isn't what I expected of Singapore — I really thought it would be busier than this. It was a bit of a culture shock going from Thailand to here, and Singapore appears to be completely different to any other South East Asian country we have visited. I don't dislike it, I am just finding it rather difficult to adjust to!

Marina Bay Sands did look impressive if I am honest, but in the end it was just another large modern building in a sea of other modern buildings. I sound a little downbeat about Singapore, don't I? But it does get more positive throughout the day, I promise, and it is somewhere to tick off my bucket list. It was possibly an anti climax coming here after Bangkok; If we had done it the other way around, it may well have been different!

Photo opportunities over, we walked along the front and headed into the city, where we had a quick coffee before heading to China Town!

China Town was my sort of place. It was colourful, vibrant, and full of life. This is what city life should be about and a thoroughly enjoyed walking around the streets, markets, and shops in this popular area of Singapore. Where the city was quiet, China Town was heaving with people and tourists, and it's easy to see why. 

Singapore is such an expensive place, that the sad reality is, it only caters for the rich and more affluent members of society. This is especially the case in the CBD itself, where there are mainly high-end designer shops. China Town offers an alternative vision of the city and even though prices are still relatively high, by Asian standards, bargains can still be found.

Darrell and I bought a lot of stuff, but then we always do on holiday. I have been wanting to buy a small jade pendant for a long time and found one for S$160. It wasn't cheap, but it was perfect and certified real Jade. You certainly get what you pay for. 

The market stalls also has their fair share of tat, which I absolutely love. The more kitsch and retro the better, and in China Town there was plenty to choose from. S$800 later, I was completely shopped out and ready for some lunch!

Darrell wanted McDonald's, but I persuaded him to stay in China Town, where we had authentic Chinese food from a small family run restaurant. We had plenty to eat and drink for the reasonable price of S$75. I am actually enjoying Chinese food over here. It is unlike the western style food you get back in Australia and has a real depth of taste. I think Darrell has had enough of it, however, demanding a western food day today. All good, I can't completely eat Chinese food every day myself, and I did spy a Pizza Express, while walking around the city after my trip to hospital a few days ago!

Finally, we made our way to Gardens by the Bay, a destination I have wanted to see for years. This amazing structure was out of this world, with the backdrop of Marina Bay Sands Hotel behind.  The gardens have other attractions, but in the heat of the day, neither of us wanted to explore too much. Instead, we had a bite to eat, ice cream and refreshments before the light show at 7.45pm in the evening.

There was great anticipation as we were waiting for the light show to start. Thousands of people had by now arrived, setting up their cameras for what is advertised as the best light show in the World. To be honest, I never expected it to be as good as it was.

At 7.45, the lights in the park dimmed and the spectacular display of light and music began. I was absolutely awe struck by the whole event and judging by the gasps from the audience, they were also. It's not often I can say I am overwhelmed by something, but on this occasion I was. The light show hasn't changed my views on Singapore, as an overrated destination for the rich, but it has allowed me to look at it in a more positive light. It is worth coming to Singapore to see China Town and the light show alone. Leave the rich to do their thing in the fancy air-conditioned malls, and instead, explore the more down to earth places like us. We are all different, and as hard as it is for me to admit, Singapore does have something for everyone, whoever you are, you just have to look hard to find it!

Well it wasn't the start to our stay in Singapore I wanted, but after arriving at Chiangi Airport, I was noticeably worried about the wound on my arm, which was showing serious signs of infection. Now look, I have been here before, so know what I have to do. The difference this time, of course, was the nature of the injury. If I had left it alone in the first place, after the fall, it probably wouldn't have got as bad as it did. 

My overcautious approach was born from previous experience. I have contracted two very serious forms of Staphylococcus on the last two holidays I went on, so the panic that followed my tumble on the boat on the second day of our holiday in Bangkok, was noticeable! I wasn't prepared to go through the IV antibiotics I had in the past, and tried everything to stop any infection before it started. It is likely I did too much, way too much, and should have left well alone.

While Darrell made his way to our riverfront hotel, I took a taxi straight to Raffles hospital in the centre of the city. I had a particularly funny conversation with the driver, who accidentally took me to the world-famous Raffles Hotel. He looked confused, when I said 'No Raffles Hospital'! This was a first for him, taking a visitor straight to hospital, but he was good-humoured and deeply apologetic. Only I would end up in hospital on arrival!

I was in the 24-hour Acute and Critical Care unit for a good few hours, while the wonderful staff poked, prodded, examined and dressed my wound. This plush hospital was first class, and rushed me through as quick as they could. I was prescribed a high dose course of antibiotics, and I was told in no uncertain terms, that I couldn't drink with them at all — that's no more alcohol for me on this holiday then.

After I was officially declared fit to go, I was directed to the desk to pay the bill. Now I am well aware of how expensive this place is, so I was expecting a few thousand dollars, but to my surprise I was told it was just S$300. I breathed a huge sigh of relief. With my health being top of my list of priorities these days, I would have paid anything to make sure I was well enough to resume my travels, so this was a small price to pay. After being given a fit to fly certificate, I was sent on my way, by some of the friendliest medical staff I have ever come across — and the welcoming nature of Singaporeans didn't end there!

As I tried to find a taxi for my journey to the Furama Riverfront Hotel, I was approached by the young concierge, who went out of his way to do all he could for me. He explained about the app I should install on my phone, and how it would make getting around Singapore much easier. After arranging a car for me, he then waited with me for fifteen minutes, checking I was OK and chatting about his life in Singapore.

Like other Singaporeans I have met, he was looking at a future away from his country of birth. The cost of living, house prices and lack of opportunities were big factors in why he wanted to leave. He did feel sad because he loved his home, but he just didn't see a future for himself. He also asked about my life living in Australia, a place he also hoped to travel to one day.

When the taxi arrived, I promised to pop back and say goodbye before I left, and he thanked me for taking the time to talk to him. Asia is a very friendly part of the World as I can testify, but so far, the locals in this tiny south-east Asian nation have been exceptional. Suitably impressed, I waved goodbye and he did the same. I actually really felt like I had made a connection with someone new. I know he was just doing his job, but I could tell he just wanted to talk and get things off his chest, while I was there to listen. Sometimes, a friendly face is all it takes!

The Furama hotel isn't the Aira Hotel, it is in a completely different class. This Singapore hotel is a bog-standard family establishment that is vast. Catering for hundreds of guests, it doesn't offer the luxury we had in Bangkok, but with hotel space here at a premium, we were lucky to get rooms that were big enough to cater for our needs. This is a perfect place for a few days and has all the facilities we require, so despite it being a little shabby in places, it will be fine for our brief stay!

At the hotel I finally met Justin after ten years and that was a rather emotional reunion! Justin has proven me wrong on so many levels over the years, and I am so glad to see him doing so well in his career and new home. Our lives fourteen years ago, when we first met, were very different, with partying and living in the moment, at the forefront of our thoughts. Today all our priorities have changed, but it was good to see that Justin remains the life and soul of the party, as he always was!

We made our way down to Boat Quay in Singapore, where we had a few pints in The Penny Black, a pub I had seen on the internet and a place I had wanted to visit for a long time. This old traditional English style pub, was everything I expected and more. Like all of Singapore, however, it was very expensive, with two beers costing me S30. This wasn't too much of a shock, however, this is probably the most expensive country in the World and certainly a place I couldn't afford to visit too often.

With Justin feeling worse of wear, and the rain pouring down, Justin made his way back to the hotel, while Darrell and I had a typical Singaporean meal at Tian Tian Fishermans Restaurant on the Quay. The food was delicious, but at a cost of S$200 for the two of us, it wasn't cheap. It was well worth the money nevertheless. Both of us thoroughly enjoyed sitting on the terrace, looking out across the river. With the skyline lit up, it really was a beautiful place to chill, eat, chat and talk about the future.

We both decided to walk back to the hotel after the rain cleared. I don't think I have ever felt safer walking through a city at night. This was a magical experience and probably the first time Darrell and I have truly relaxed this holiday.

I am hoping that now, we can finally enjoy our last few days in Asia together, with Justin, and we can pick up our friendship where we last left off ten years ago. It is good to see a friendly face, when you live on the other side of the World, and Justin has visited us more than most. Singapore offers the chance to reconnect in a setting that we could have only dreamed of a decade ago. I hope that we can form the lasting memories that make us the people we are, before we, once again, go our separate ways — until we meet again in another part of the World!

Well that's it, our final day in Bangkok, before travelling on to Singapore tomorrow. Today has been a day of shopping, eating, drinking and more shopping. The weather has been particularly bad, so neither of us have wanted to do anything taxing. Out of all the days we have been here, this has been the least tiring, and it has been a welcome break, after the last six manic days in Thailand.

Despite contracting another infection, which isn't unusual for me, our time here has been great on the whole. Spending our 30th Anniversary with Aom, at, So Samsen, was an absolute delight and a memory we will keep with us until we return in a few years. Eating at our favourite restaurant was the real reason we came back to Thailand, and it will be a reason to return in future. Of all the places we have visited over the years, this has been by far the most welcoming and friendly. They really don't call Thailand the land of smiles for nothing, and it of course shows in the hospitality this country offers.

This first leg of our journey has been memorable for all the right reasons. We have been able to see attractions we didn't see the first two times round, and they have once again left us awe struck, at the sheer majesty of Thailand. Of course this is a vast country, and we have only seen a small part of it, but when you fall in love with a city like Bangkok, what else can you do, but return and return again.

Bangkok is by far the best city we have ever visited, and we have travelled to many over the years. For a blogger like me, it is an essential resource, when writing about this part of the World. This is a melting pot of different nationalities and religions, all living harmoniously side by side. I did read recently, that Bangkok is the World's most visited city, and it is easy to see why. There is something for everyone here. From its history and culture, to the food and nightlife; Bangkok has never failed to impress me.

Tomorrow morning we leave for Singapore to meet an old friend, Justin, who arrived this morning. Here I will be exploring a country that I have never seen before, which is highly unusual for me. I have travelled to nearly every country in this region, and this is one of the last ones on my bucket list. Darrell has been to Singapore many times before, but this has always been a place I have avoided. If you ask me why, I really don't have an answer — apart from mentioning the expense and small size of the country. On the surface, there doesn't appear to be a lot to do there, but Darrell assures me there is. 

Bangkok has given us some wonderful memories to take away once again, and we have met some wonderful people on our journey. This is the most important aspect of my life now. At my age, I am happy to be exploring on a more modest level. We will of course return in the future, once we have been to Bali and Japan. Until then, it's a fond farewell to the most special city in the World and a big thank you to everyone who has been a part of our trip this year.

Yesterday we went to Ancient City, just outside of Bangkok. This was a trip I was looking forward to after researching it on YouTube. It is true to say, that most tourists only stay in Bangkok for a few days, so Ancient City isn't at the top of most visitors itineraries. Staying in Bangkok for a week, has allowed us to do things, we wouldn't otherwise have done. Ancient City is an all-day trip, so if you are in Bangkok, you will have to dedicate time to go here — however it is well worth it and better than anything I have ever seen before.

We got to the city by 9 am, after taking the BTS Sky train from our hotel in Nana to Kheha, right at the very end of the green line. From the station, we took a taxi, at a cost of THBT60 to Ancient City, which was about 3 km away and there wasn't a soul in sight. We were the first in the queue, just how I like it. I actually don't think I've ever been late for anything in my life, so early starts are perfect for me. That may well change when we meet Justin in Singapore next week, but for now I am enjoying the cooler early mornings in Bangkok! 

It cost THBT800 each, for me and Darrell to get into the park and a further THBT350 for the hire of a golf buggy for an hour. We also paid a further THBT200 for an extra two hours hire, after spending a total of about three and a half hours at Ancient City. To be honest, I don't think either of us really understood just how big the complex was. As soon as we passed the entry point, I was literally awe struck, by the surrounding history and richly decorated buildings — this was Thai decadence at its finest!

Now I am a big fan of Thai architecture as you know, but nothing could have prepared me for the stunning buildings, monuments, temples, and gardens that were inside. This is a Thai theme park in everything but name, and it was amazing.

The weather was a little moist, shall we say. Despite the temperature being in the 30s, the rain clouds were out, and it did pour down at various points on our journey. We were lucky we were in a golf buggy, which kept us relatively dry, rather than a bicycle, which you can also hire.

I really wish I could tell you what the different monuments were called, but I just can't there were too many to mention. However, all of them are related to Thai architecture in some way. From Grand palaces, Wats, native dwellings on stilts and Buddhist statues, everything had a deep connection to the Thai people that lived, worked and gathered in these relics from Thailand's historic past. These were indeed special places, recreated, restored and cared for in a majestic setting, just outside of Bangkok!

As our day progressed, we bumped into numerous school children with their teachers, also visiting Ancient City. I am always amazed by how polite they are and always have been. No matter where I have been in the World, either living or visiting, the local children have always been a delight. They are so respectful and courteous — waving and saying hello, as we walked by. All of them, wearing their neatly pressed school uniforms, gave us a high five and a welcoming greeting; in some cases, telling us how much they loved us. I'm not sure if they used the world love entirely correctly, but their enthusiasm, on seeing tourists, was infectious and Darrell and I were happy to reciprocate, with a wave and a smile.

After three and a half hours of driving around the park, taking pictures and savouring the delights of Ancient city, we were done. Both of us were tired and wet by this point, so made our way back to the BTS train station. We hailed a taxi from the site and were charged THBT120 for the return trip, double what we had paid before. To be honest, I didn't care too much. It was a rainy day and all of us have to make a living somehow. The driver was nice enough, and I was just glad to be back on the train home.

A day at Ancient city is tiring and this isn't a trip you can make on foot, not matter what you think. The golf buggy was invaluable, and it was better than sitting in a crowded tram, surrounded by other people, all fighting for space to take the right photo or video. Darrell and I have got to an age now, where we would rather be on our own, which indeed made for a better experience for us. You of course may feel different and prefer to be around others. However you explore the city, just make sure you do your best to see it all. Around every corner, there is something more spectacular than the corner before, and I couldn't get over the splendour of the place — It was literally a dream come true for a history buff like me.

On the train home, I phoned my insurance company; the wound on my arm wasn't feeling right and something was telling me I needed to see a doctor quickly. Darrell thought I was overacting, but when you suffer with health anxiety, you instinctively know when something isn't right.

My insurance company arranged for me to have a consultation with a local Thai GP over the phone, via the Air Doctor App, which I have come across before. They emailed me when we arrived back at Nana, and I was speaking to a doctor within 15 minutes.

​He looked at the graze on my arm and immediately said it was infected, likely because I had been advised to use the wrong cream and plasters. Boots pharmacy had told me to use waterproof band-aids, which had probably caused more sweating in the humid weather, contributing to the infection bubbling under the skin. He prescribed some antibiotic cream and the medical team at my bank also arranged for a follow-up appointment tomorrow night, before we fly to Singapore.

I have been here before, and I was happy enough to take the advice in a timely manner, before I end up on IV antibiotics again, which happened after my last two holidays. I am of course hoping this won't happen this time and the ointment prescribed will do the job, but I understand just how this can end. For now, I have to treat it three times a day for the next week and that's fine — fingers crossed all works out OK.

After a quick shower and lunch over the road from the hotel, we picked up the immaculately washed and pressed clothes from the laundry. This is what I love about visiting Thailand — having all your washing done for you, so you don't have to do a thing, when you arrive in Singapore.

It did cost me THBT950 for this service, but it was worth it. The ladies had to handwash some of my shirts as they didn't want to put them through the washing machine. To be honest, they are quite expensive European linen shirts, so I'm glad they did — even though I won't be doing it myself!

Tonight, blogging with a view, after a few bottles of beer. This is a view I will miss when I return home. The vibrancy of city life, still pulls at my heart strings, no matter where I am.

Today was a day to take it easy. Both Darrell and I have been burning the candle at both ends on this holiday, and at 55 years old, we are feeling old age creeping slowly up on us. Despite my love of humid weather, it really doesn't love me. It is well known for creating the right moist environment for germs to breed, which is probably why I had infections after returning from holidays in the past, and it does make one's arthritis flare up. For those reasons, and one too many pints last night, we decided to take it easy today and visit a local Cat Café, one of our favourite things to do on holiday.

The Asok Penthouse Cat Café, situated next to the Terminal 21 shopping mall, just a few stops on the BTS sky train from our hotel, is a delight. Now, we have been to many Cat Cafés in the past, with varying degrees of success. Sadly, the majority of them were badly run and maintained, and the poor cats looked decidedly down and depressed. This is one of the reasons why I didn't want to go to another one this time around in Bangkok.

However, Darrell persuaded me to go, and I am so glad I did. The last thing I want to see are animals in distress, as I have in the past, but here, you could immediately tell how happy, content, and loved they are. The café is not a money making machine, it is a not for profit organisation that is there to care for cats who need it most. 

Situated on two levels, there are cats everywhere you look. After ordering a drink and piece of cake, we made our way upstairs to the second floor, where there are cats that are waiting to be rehomed, or in need of more, one on one care. Here I met Som, a three-legged ginger kitten who had been involved in a car accident and was now being cared for by the staff and volunteers at this amazing place.

Som was lovely, such a sweet girl and so loving. You could tell she was still very fragile, but as one of the volunteers said — 'she is growing stronger each day'! I am sure that with a bit of help and encouragement, she will be fine eventually. I would have taken her home like a shot.

All the other cats are equally well-adjusted and very friendly. The Asok Penthouse Cat Café, gave me faith back in these most unusual of eating establishments, and I may just go to another one in future. For now, I am happy we spent time there and would like to offer my sincere thanks to all the volunteers who work there, for an informative and relaxing few hours in the company of their cats!

Over the road from the cat café is Terminal 21, which has become our new favourite shopping mall in Bangkok. I suppose it is set out like an airport terminal building, with each floor named after a country. The signage, throughout Terminal 21, looks similar to an airport and the sheer size of the place mimics an airport in every respect.

This is a place where you can get lost pretty easily, and like most of Bangkok itself, there appears to be no logic in regard to the layout. Having said that, the atmosphere of the mall was friendly and unlike Icon Siam and Central World, it isn't overpriced in the slightest. Unusually for me, I enjoyed walking around this rabbit warren of shops and stalls and could have spent the whole day and a hell of a lot of money being there.

The London floor, was particularly well done, with the restrooms created in a London Underground theme. I'm not sure that it was entirely appropriate to be taking photos in public toilets, but I was just so taken with the place, it just had to be done.

If you are coming to Bangkok, give Terminal 21 a visit, I know you won't be disappointed. Equally, bring a rather fat wallet of cash — cash is most certainly king here. Yes, they do take cards, but they would rather you give them money, which, it has to be said, much of Thailand prefers as well!

​I'm sure me and Darrell will be back before we leave for Singapore on Sunday!

Having seen most of the historic sights of Bangkok previously, we have decided to visit the less well known destinations this time around, not usually on the tourist map — as well as some familiar favourites. We are lucky to have been here twice before and have seen The Grand Palace, Wat Arun and other equally amazing temples and monuments. This year was about reliving experiences and recalling memories that have become a part of who we are as a couple. On our 30th anniversary, it is only right we come back to this part of the World at such an important milestone.

Navigating the BTS and MRT public transport systems can be a bit daunting at times, which is why I leave Darrell to do that important job. I am not someone who knows how to read a map and have an appalling sense of direction. Having said that, Darrell also found the whole process of getting to our first destination, Talat Noi, rather arduous.

Both the MRT and BTS Sky train system work extremely well, but the two different modes of transport, Underground and mono rails above the city, do not work well together. They are not integrated, and it can be difficult going from one system to the other. Despite this, they are both relatively cheap and worlds ahead of anything Australia or even London have.

Apart from anything else, I absolutely love the brutalist architecture of the Sky Train. There is something quite dystopian in nature about its construction, and that appeals to be sense of adventure. A whole world has built up on the huge, expansive walkways, crisscrossing the city centre, linking stations, shops, and even homes. Sheltered from the intense heat in Bangkok, it is the perfect way to navigate this ginormous city in the sky and is a tourist destination in itself!

From Nana Station, where we are staying, we took the BTS Sky train to Sala Daeng, where we joined the underground, MRT, and took the train to Hua Lampong, near China Town. From here, after a rather confusing search for the right exit, we walked to the now famous Talat Noi Art Street. This is a little known venue for your usual tourist. However, for me, it was a must-see treasure. I had seen it on YouTube before, highlighted by various famous YouTube bloggers, and immediately fell in love with this colourful Street.

If you like urban street art, you will love this location. Graffiti has long been a favourite for me, and Talat Noi doesn't fail to impress. This is a street to walk through, relax and take in the amazing display from local artists. It is an Instagram and vloggers dream, full of photo opportunities, wherever you look.

There are also various boutique style shops hidden down dark alleyways, where art work from famous Thai artists is on display for you to buy. I have to admit, I bought a few cherished items, that certainly had meaning for Darrell and me on our 30th anniversary. 

We spent a good hour or so, walking around this rather eclectic area, and it would be a place I would visit again. Graffiti is transient in nature, and this will always ensure there is something new and different to appreciate. The artwork on display is also deeply poignant at times, with personal Thai references, that make Talat Noi the perfect escape on a hot Bangkok morning!

From Talat Noi, we made our way to King Power Mahanakhon Tower, or The Pixel Tower, as many people affectionately call it. From a distance, it actually looks like the building is collapsing in on itself and is a sight to behold. Today we were going to the very top of this iconic Bangkok landmark, to take in the breathtaking views of the city below.

Now, if you know me well enough, you'll understand just how much I hate heights, so for me, managing to get up to the 74th floor of the tower, was a real feat. The views were indeed breathtaking, despite the fog and mist that was hanging over the city. Bangkok is hot, very hot, but it is also extremely humid and cloudy, making perfect viewing days rare.

From the 74th floor, I made my way up to the 78th floor, via an open glass staircase. I was well aware that at the top, were panoramic views to die for, but this viewing deck was open to the elements and not for the faint-hearted. I suppose I lasted about fifteen minutes, standing well away from the edge, before cautiously making my way down to the bottom.

This must do experience cost Darrell and me, TBHT1000, each, about A$45 per person, which isn't cheap. Disappointingly, there is very little to do, when you are at the top, and it is a rather inferior experience over all. Having said that, it is something you have to see when you come to Bangkok. The architecture of this building is an extremely breathtaking and awe-inspiring sight — this is not a building you will forget in a hurry.

In the evening, we popped over the road from our hotel to the German bar, for some good old-fashioned German food and a few pints of beer. This was welcome after the rather packed day we had just had and was the perfect end to the day.

Soi 11 is one of the liveliest parts of Bangkok and can make your eyes pop at times. We are here for its central location and positive vibe; it is absolutely packed every night, and it is perfect for me, just being able to sit there, taking in the atmosphere of the strip. Soi 11 isn't for the faint-hearted, so if you are considering staying in this area of Bangkok, make sure it is all that you expect — don't be shocked by the seedier side of life.

I was approached by whom I can only describe as the oldest hooker in town, while Darrell was photographing another street cat (It's his thing to do on holiday). She was polite, lovely, and adorable, despite having to explain I was gay. There was no malice, just a kindly squeeze of the hand and a wave goodbye. This is a perfectly normal side of life in Bangkok, and you shouldn't be shocked if you come across it. Soi 11 is an eye-opener, so enjoy everything it has to offer!

Yesterday we left Phra Nakhon for the 45-minute journey into Bangkok centre and our new hotel for the next 5 days. The Aira Hotel comes highly recommended from YouTubers, bloggers and of course Trip Advisor. This is a relatively modern hotel, with top-notch facilities, right in the centre of Soi 11, the main party strip in Bangkok.

We arrived early at the Aira, about 10 am, and were expecting a long wait to get into our hotel room. In the past, other venues have just kept our bags in a lock up until we were ready to check in at about 2pm. This time, however, we were told we could check in straight away. This is the mark of good service in my book, and my first impressions of this four-star hotel were good — I definitely had high hopes for our stay.

The positivity didn't stop there! When we got to the room, I was amazed by the size quality and views from this superior suite. Of course, I had paid extra for this particular location in the hotel, but it was worth every penny. Considering this was the first time I had picked a room based on recommendations, I was suitably impressed. YouTubers and bloggers are usually quite economical with the truth and describe hotels and experiences as 'amazing' when they are nothing but. 

I was more than happy to be spending five days at The Aira and if you are thinking about travelling to Bangkok, you would do well to choose this hotel. I never make recommendations as a rule, because I understand that everyone has different tastes and views, but the Aira offers something for everyone. Oh, and the bed is huge — you could fit six people or more in it (Make of that what you will)!

Today was about exploring the local area. Our Hotel is situated in Soi 11, right in the heart of the city. It is literally a short walk from Nana BTS Station and is surrounded by a variety of international restaurants and bars. This is where tourists come for a good time, and it's easy to see why. It reminds me very much of Danang in Vietnam or Benidorm in Spain, although the hotels here, are a little more upmarket and there is at least a classy vibe.

However, just around the corner, you arrive in the red-light district, which Darrell and I stumbled on by accident. This isn't a gay district, but it is extremely gay friendly. There were plenty of Thai girls touting for business, massage parlours and adult bars in this more seedy side of Soi 11 and I would say this isn't an area to bring children. This most certainly is an adult only destination of choice.

Darrell and I did take the BTS Sky Train to the MBK shopping centre, which is always a place to find some bargains. This huge complex contains smaller market type stalls selling everything you can imagine and a lot more besides. There are a lot of fake designer brands so be careful, and the prices can vary dramatically, so watch your wallet.

From the MBK centre, we went to the most famous bookstore in all of Bangkok, at the Central Embassy Mall. This exclusive shop is full of books, art work and coffee shops. It is the ideal place to sit and take in the view outside, read a publication or just browse. This isn't your usual bookshop and there are many obscure titles that are rather highbrow in nature; it isn't the place to buy bog standard fiction title sold on the shelves of Dymocks or Waterstones. The atmosphere is superb and luckily for me, there was also a wonderfully well stocked LGBTQIA+ section, containing books and art work you wouldn't find anywhere else.

In the evening, Darrell and I opted for a rather nice meal at the hotel. They do an all-you-can-eat buffet, which isn't what it appears to be on the surface. This isn't a pile it high, eat thousands of calories in one hit kind of buffet, but a rather sophisticated meal. Consisting of lots of courses of beautifully cooked Thai and western food, it is brought to your table in a timely fashion, by attentive waiters, expertly trained to make your experience perfect!

I suppose Darrell and I had about six courses each, and they all tasted unbelievably good. We could have had many more, but after piling on the pounds, I kept it rather restrained. I paid about AUD$60 for the two of us and that was including a 20% service charge, We chose the THB755 food and soft drink package, since neither of us were drinking last night, and it was worth every penny.

After an early dinner, we took a stroll around the area once again, just taking in the sights of city life in Bangkok. Coming from small town Australia, it is always a dream coming here. We both love the bright lights of Bangkok because it is so different to where we live. Bangkok never ceases to amaze me — it is a place I return to time and time again, because it offers so much to the eager traveller like me. If you haven't been here, come, you won't be disappointed and neither were we!

Well, there you have it, Darrell and I have reached another milestone in our life together. Today we celebrated 30 years together as a couple, and ten years married. I never thought I would be saying that after the trials and tribulations we have suffered throughout our life. With the memories of our relationship firmly on both our minds, we decided to take a trip down memory lane and revisit some of our old Bangkok favourites, that have played such a large role in our recent history.

When we left the UK in 2022, we first visited family in Croatia and then took a trip to Thailand. We fell in love with this Asian country almost straight away and have been back twice since. Bangkok remains our destination of choice. This vibrant, busy city is so full on, in contrast to our Western Australian home, that it hurts. Both of us prefer the bright lights of city life, and coming here always reminds us of the life we once led — not so long ago.

We began the day by taking a river cruise along the Chao Phraya River in Bangkok. This really is a special place, and a great experience to enjoy, relax and unwind. Today the temperature was a perfect 26 degrees, although it did feel a hell of a lot hotter, with the humidity in the 90s. This is of course in stark contrast to Western Australia. 26 degrees down under, can, and often does, feel positively freezing. Being a desert, WA just doesn't have the humidity Thailand does. The dry heat during the day can feel cold at night. I have personally always preferred humid climbs, which is probably why I love Bangkok so much!
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​As we cruised along the Chao Phraya, it was fantastic seeing all the old sites once again: The Grand Palace, and of course Wat Arun where we stopped at to take a walk down memory lane. This is probably the most famous Wat or temple in Bangkok and is richly decorated in colourful, distinctive Thai style; it is a wondrous sight as you travel up the river. This is a destination I would come back to time and time again and is always bursting with many happy memories!

As I got off the boat, I banged my elbow on the side of the rather dirty counter and immediately panicked. This was the very elbow, I was being so careful to protect, after contracting a severe strain of staphylococcus aureus on the last two holidays we went on, in exactly the same place. I could not believe it. After all the preparation and careful planing, I had once again whacked the same elbow — my heart literally sank.

Thankfully, I was carrying some antiseptic with me, which I quickly sprayed over the now painful graze, and we quickly got back on the boat, heading towards Icon Siam. Here I managed to find a Boots Pharmacy and grabbed some cream and plasters. This time, I am doing everything I can to stop any infection in its tracks. At the moment it is looking rather dodgy, but, with my bag of medical supplies, I am just praying nothing bad will happen. Known me, however, it will, and I'm truly holding my breath!

Arriving at Icon Siam, Darrell wanted one of their famous shaved ice desserts, which are legendary in Bangkok and they taste bloody lovely. They are a little pricey, however, but when one of these refreshing confections is enough for two or even three people, they are certainly great value for money.

Icon Siam is probably the most expensive shopping mall in Bangkok, full of designer shops, and high value goods for sale. It is worth having a wonder around this vast complex, however, as the food court on the ground floor is pretty reasonably priced. There is also a large market inside selling local Thai handicrafts and art, also on the bottom floor. The luxury air-conditioned building, is the perfect place to keep cool for a few hours, while window shopping for some luxuries, that Darrell and I, certainly wouldn't be able to afford. It is nice to dip in every now and again, just to see how the other half live!

After a quick walk to the famous Khaosan Road to get some souvenirs and a quick snack, we popped back to the hotel to freshen up before heading to, So Samsen, for our anniversary meal. This was the part of the holiday I was really looking forward to, and I wasn't disappointed.

The wonderful owner, Aom, had arranged a bottle of bubbly for Darrell and me, which was a lovely gesture from a welcoming and friendly host. Aom has always been an absolute pleasure to talk with, offering some friendly advice and often chatting about life in Thailand. I have always found Thai people extremely courteous and affable — nothing is too much for them, and they just want to be sure you are enjoying their country and hospitality, that they are rightly proud of; after all, they don't call Thailand the land of smiles for nothing.

We spent a good few hours drinking wine and a few pints of Chang, while chatting with the staff and other customers. Sat there looking out across the road, with a busy 7-Eleven opposite, watching urban life pass by, I was reminded by the vivacity, energy, and exuberance this city offers. I am indeed a fan of urban life, because of the many wonderful characters you meet, each with their own story to tell.

Bangkok is a manic cosmopolitan city, encompassing tourists from every corner of the globe. For that reason alone, it is worth visiting. For us returning year after year, we are transported back to our happy place, after leaving adverse times in Portsmouth in 2022, before we started our new life down under. Back then, as now, Aom and the girls offered us a comfortable setting in which to sit and unwind, after one of the most turbulent years of our life.

So Samsen, was the only choice for us to return to on our 30th Anniversary. This was us coming home to see old friends in a setting we adore. The Michelin Star food is without exception the best we have tasted in Bangkok, and I always look forward to my time here. This was indeed another memory made, as we enter the fourth decade of our life together. We are of course a lot older than we were — our aches and pains get more every day, and the simpler things in life are all that matters now. This is a holiday we have been planning for a long time, and it is also the end of one life and the beginning of something new, as we gently drift into older age!

From So Samsen, we took a brisk walk to the colourful Khaosan Road, to say farewell to this special part of Bangkok, before we leave tomorrow morning. Heading to Soi 11, right in the centre of the city, we will continue the rest of our time in Bangkok, until we leave for Singapore on Sunday!

When departing Australia, it is usual for Darrell and I to take the dreaded night flight. Despite Perth being a so-called international airport, we always seem to be relegated to the worst flights of the day. This time however, we managed to get what is probably the second-worst flight. Leaving at 6.30 am, we made our way to terminal one and our first flight to Chiangi Airport in Singapore. 

This was a short stopover of four hours on our way to Bangkok, just so we could get a flavour of the place, before we meet Justin there next week, on the second leg of our journey. For now, however, that was the beginning of our two-week holiday to Asia, celebrating our 30 years together as a couple (10 years married).  Despite the ups and downs of health, I was finally given the all clear to travel by my eye Doctor just one day before we were due to fly. Talk about cutting it fine! Nevertheless, as I approach my 55th Birthday, I am mindful that I am no longer young and can not do the things I used to do. For that reason, I will be taking it a little easier this time and trying to have a more relaxing holiday!

With terminal 1 at Perth International Airport resembling a building site, there was even less to do than last year. In our usual customary way, we were there three hours before, and there were very few shops open; even I avoided having the obligatory beer before I left, preferring a more sophisticated smashed avocado on toast and a cup of green tea. I had only had a couple of hours sleep before we left, and I was feeling decidedly cranky, not the most auspicious start to our holiday.

The flight to Singapore was a delight. There was absolutely no turbulence, the food was delicious and service impeccable. I will of course never pay for business class, believing it's completely overrated. When I walked off the flight on arrival at Changi Airport, passing through the business class suites, they look just as bad, if not worse, as the economy class cabin we had just left. When you think how much people pay for these tickets, the expense is just unjustifiable. I would be kicking myself if I had just wasted all that cash, only to feel just as bad as I do normally — plus I'm a tight-fisted old b'stard in any case!
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Changi Airport is out of this world, unlike anything I have ever seen before. I suppose Kuala Lumpur Airport was up there with the best of them, but nothing like this. From projections of swimming aquatic life on the ceilings of the terminal buildings, huge waterfalls, surprisingly good value food and of course overpriced beer, this is truly a destination in itself!

I did read an article before I left about this vast international hub, and it really does put the rest of the World to shame. Singaporeans often visit it on a weekend, to just enjoy the facilities, and with us transiting through on a Sunday, the place was packed.  I was struck by the polite nature of the inhabitants of Singapore and their willingness to go out of their way to help you. They are indeed one of the most polite nationalities I have ever come across and most definitely put us Aussies to shame.

Despite the positive nature of Singapore, I was understandably rather worried about the costs. I was aware of how expensive it is from other people who have been there in the past, so when you are presented with a $21 bill for a 500ml glass of beer, you just know it's going to burn a hole in your budget.

We did eat a delicious meal at the street food hawker centre in terminal three, however, which was fantastic value for money. This goes to show that you can find some good bargains if you look around, even at the World's most expensive airport.
 

Amazingly, we came across the Butterfly Garden, in terminal 3 of the airport. It was stunning! Walking through, feeling the hot tropical air, surrounded by thousands of fluttering butterflies, is an experience like no other. I can't quite believe this place even exists at Changi, but it is perfect for people like us, to briefly explore whilst waiting for our connecting flight. Usually I would spend hours sat on a seat scrolling through my phone, as the hours ticked by, here I was able to keep myself occupied, right up to the moment of departure.

We then took the sky train from terminal 3, back to terminal 2. where our flight was departing. As we were whisked through this vast complex I was reminded of the film 'Logan's Run' set in a futuristic dystopian earth. Changi looked like a vision from a SCIFI movie, and I was in awe of the place. 

We passed by an area known as 'The Jewel', despite being inside the airport complex, this green, lush, tropical landscape, highlighted by a large waterfall in the centre, was the showpiece of Changi. I was gobsmacked by the sheer size of it. It really was a wonderful sight as we passed by in the train, and I was struck by the numbers of people just enjoying this attraction on a Sunday afternoon.
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Once again, it was another perfect flight from Singapore to Bangkok. Singapore Airlines is fast becoming one of my favourite airlines of choice. However, I was absolutely shattered when I arrived in Thailand. Surprisingly, despite arriving at peak hour, we were off the plane and through customs very quickly.

Having been to this airport three times before, it is usually packed with travellers trying to get through Boarder Control. This time, after the introduction of the new TDAC, (electronic arrivals card) system, the process was relatively fast. I had to apply for this official document online three days before, which in itself was very straight forward, and the claim that this would speed up the processing of visitors arriving was actually accurate. Now I have heard this all before, from other countries, but this was one time when we were actually told the truth. Take it from me, it was speedy — just make sure you get your TDAC card before you leave.

I had organised an air-conditioned minivan to take us from the airport to the Nouvo Hotel in Phra Nakhon. This is always a chaotic process as you wait for your pickup through a mixture of broken English WhatsApp messages and drivers holding boards with names on. If you think Singapore is busy, then Bangkok will blow your mind. There were thousands of tired tourists looking for their ride, and it took a good half an hour before we were on our way to the Nouvo Hotel.

We always stay at The Nouvo Hotel when we are here. It is right opposite our favourite restaurant, So Samsen, and ideal to stagger back to after a few pints of Chang. It is comfortable, clean and the breakfast is to die for. Furthermore, it is a Muslim hotel, which doesn't serve alcohol, which is fine for us, since we always have a drink over the road. The staff here are exceptional, and I highly recommend it, should you visit this part of Bangkok.

After a shower and deep clean (Yes I still worry about catching staph while travelling) we headed over the road to So Samsen, to enjoy an amazing Thai Curry and chat with the girls, who are always a joy! Tomorrow, on our 30th Anniversary, we will be back for more!